jayam Posted May 7, 2013 Posted May 7, 2013 I am in love with a girl for last two year, started as friends and developed into love...my current problem all these days i express my love in full form and on the other hand she is looks reserved, but like my expressing love and all. At times we have small tiffs regarding this matter and most of the times i initiate for a compromise. 2 days back same problem raised and when i asked to clear her attitude, she replied that " i am always safe in her heart, but she can't express her love as i expect and she don't wants to hurt me and wish to keep away from me". Her words gave shock and without uttering a word i left the place and till time i didn't contact her...This happened in past also and i compromised myself and our relation continued, i used to say if your attitude is this i will breakup from You, which she knows well.... My question is do i want to do a text repeating my stand or keep quiet and wait for her reply... i Love her very much now my mind hurts a lot...please advice i want her as i wish....
will1988 Posted May 7, 2013 Posted May 7, 2013 Although I had a hard time reading what you wrote (I'm guessing ESL? good job though), I can surmise that your girl friend has fallen out of love with you. It shows. When she is saying stuff about her not wanting to hurt you and then saying the "buts" that is always a sign. I know you love her and it is hurting you that she does not love you back. However, you must move on. Find someone that will truely love you for you, and do not sweat this current girl. What will be, will be. Good luck!
Giha Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 If I understand this properly your problem is her lack of expression of love to you. My ex was like that too. She had hard time expressing her love and emotions. I had problems with this at first, but I decided to keep quiet about it and give her time to open up, and sure enough after a few months she expressed her feelings more often. Try giving her the time to open up or just trust her and allow her to be herself. If that's too hard for you then maybe you two just don't fit.
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