i am in love with my bestfriend boyfriend

[laroche]

my best friend was in love with a guy that he doesn't have any feeling toward her, but she insist of being with him in a relation , instead he was always trying to tell her that she's not more than a friend.

a day i met this guy ,was with her , there was a chemistry between us , but never talk , and then we went friends .

suddenly, no one knows how or why , we had a serious feeling of love

Now we are dating , and my best friend knew , and went so upset of me , she said that i was knowing about her deeply love .

I donnu what to do, i don't want to loose him , and same for her , please i need a help

[TaraMaiden]

There is no magic formula, no mysterious secret to keeping both.

You are asking the impossible.

 

It will be either one or the other.

But not both.

 

You choose.

[laroche]

but how should i act with her , or lets say how can i face it

[TaraMaiden]

Tell her sometimes these things happen.

 

How old are you all?

[laroche]

i am 25 years old he's 27 years old w she's 21 years old

[TaraMaiden]

She's just a kid.... She's barely grown up yet....

 

I think you should both talk to her gently and tell her sometimes these things happen.

She's too young for him, and not mature enough....

[Njeanne]

Listen to what Taramaiden say's, she too young to be in a relationship with him. They say love is blind, and it's a fact proven by what you said, she knew he didn't love her, yet she insisted on being in a relationship with him. In his eyes, they aren't in a relationship, simply because he isn't in love. He is in love with you, and you are in love with him, you two want to be together am I right?

 

Best thing to do is, you all three together, have a conversation and put the dots on the "i" regarding his feelings towards her vs you, and try and make her understand they aren't in a relationship.