McDonald Posted May 7, 2013 Posted May 7, 2013 Hey all, its been awhile since ive actually posted about myself. This is because I really have had nothing to say about the break up anymore. Im not going to really explain what happen-- because I dont need week 1 break up advice lol; this is more for those who have been there since the beginning of my breakup. _________ well, I think its month 5 now? Doesnt seem that long, but its felt like an eternity. But im happy now. Not as happy as I was with her.. but it will get there. We have been NC for about 4 months. Occasional message from her.. but not from me. Bread crumbs from her... though she has a boyfriend now... had one since one week after we broke up. She left me for him.. I dont really have much to say lol. Usually Im posting because of something I did... like walking by her place... which you guys know I did quite frequently, or checking her facebook. but not anymore. Kinda, my mind has finally said enough. I have been meeting a lot of girls, no "hook ups" or one night stands... but that doesnt really matter. At first, I was beating myself up for it. saying things like "I was able to get with other girls before this RS,,, now the breakup happens and Ive lost it". Its not like that anymore... because I no longer am trying to get over her. I was thinking if I hookup with a girl tonight at my fraternities house party then I can get over her.... well I am over her... So I can finally let some pressure off myself. Though Im sure a one night stand wont help. Shes no longer the problem if there is still one. I feel like I have a little social anxiety, hard to approach certain girls. Feel like I dont want to get hurt again, rejected. She was my first girlfriend and approached me. So I never actually taken it to the next level myself. So while im meeting girls I like, its hard for me to take it to that next level. anyway, maybe I should take my problems to another forum here lol. So there you have it loveshack. you guys were right NC NC NC. thats all I can say. It works. yes it does. I can finally see that its for better-ing myself; and thats exactly what Im going to do. Im not leaving and still have awhile to go, but really close. I can feel it. 1
aisuru Posted May 7, 2013 Posted May 7, 2013 What a great post to read. Thank you for sharing. Yes, time and distance through no contact... Oye.
Author McDonald Posted May 7, 2013 Author Posted May 7, 2013 What a great post to read. Thank you for sharing. Yes, time and distance through no contact... Oye. It truly does work. I never would have thought it. At first i was upset that I wasnt getting her back, but then I realized that is not the point. It all then made sense.
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