Globrazil Posted September 24, 2004 Posted September 24, 2004 Dear Friends 8 years ago I started dating a girl married to a friend of mine. One month into the relationship I even paid for her to divorce her husband... Now 8 years later she is cheating on me and I love to have her back in my life... I made a big mistake then and I would like to know if is it possible for me to save my relationship? We did have a lot of problems over the years,but I never thought that she could leave me someday.I know If I put my hand on a hot stove, I most certainly DO deserve the pain from the resulting burn. We are not married yet. She is so beautiful, but she was not mine at that time..And God knows all the things!Please any advise? Lost in pain
Keyley Posted September 24, 2004 Posted September 24, 2004 Originally posted by Globrazil Dear Friends 8 years ago I started dating a girl married to a friend of mine. O my ... have you ever heard of the term 'once a cheater, always a cheater'? I don't mean that in an offensive, harsh way, I'm just wondering if you felt that since she'd done it with you, while still married to a friend, that she'd gradually do the same to you? I guess all you can do is try talking with her, tell her how you feel, what it is you want and ask the same of her. If there are 'unresolved' issues, or arguements that have become repetitive, maybe those should be made a priority and you should begin there, by trying to work them out and compromising. I'm sorry this is happening.
onlyhuman Posted September 24, 2004 Posted September 24, 2004 Sorry your hurt...but.. How did your friend feel when you committed adultery with his wife? Why would you feel a cheating wife would ever commit? What ever goes around comes around. Your better off using this as a hard earned lesson,move on and never make this mistake again.
mudobber Posted September 25, 2004 Posted September 25, 2004 This gal must be a real sweetheart to be knocking guys hearts around on a whim. You, Mr. BrazilGlo, have been smitten! Being smitten is a good thing. There is a lady out there that you really love! It may sound crazy from where you are, but this means that your heart is functioning properly and you are capable of having real feelings for a lady. So, what do you do? Obviously no other girl will do! You are one kicked puppy dog my friend. You have likely lost all trust in mankind and womankind too. You friends all seem alien. Every cell in your body is writhing in pain. A heroine addiction would be more merciful! It is tough to go without that sweet pussy after partaking for so long. And though no one has died from lack of sex, you do have my sympathies. A rebound affair might help take some sting off. But the most important thing right now is that you use this opportunity to improve yourself. Get a full physical and join a health club. Hammer down your finances and work a real budget. Sharpen up on your hobbies. And chin up. If you were with a beautiful girl once, you must have something about you that attracts. Perhaps you can do better still. Do prepare yourself for a bit of a dry spell though.
SoleMate Posted September 25, 2004 Posted September 25, 2004 I made a big mistake then and I would like to know if is it possible for me to save my relationship? What was the "big mistake"? Please be specific.
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