SingingSolo Posted May 7, 2013 Posted May 7, 2013 your bf/gf explaining how wonderful and nice you are but they can't imagine aging with you? I didn't mean to stumble in the conversation but when I heard my gf referring to me, I stopped and quietly walked towards the room. I heard it all. The last part that hurt me the most was (and I still remembered the exact sentence) ''Don't think I feel the same way but don't know how to tell him, blah, blah... well I don't wanna hurt him, don't want him to leave him'' etc. That's pretty much every type of emotions I've feeling right now. Now I know why she changed the topic when I was referring to our relationship and the progress. So after 4 years of being together I'm just a nice bf to her. I'm I getting worked on too much or I'm I right too feel crushed?
Author SingingSolo Posted May 7, 2013 Author Posted May 7, 2013 I was thinking of confronting her about this anytime this week but not sure after the ''I don't feel the same way'' part. I left after that was said and took a walk alone afterward. If that's how she's going to continue feeling no matter how many years goes into the relationship what's the point?
CarrieT Posted May 7, 2013 Posted May 7, 2013 How old are you guys? Honestly, the best thing you can probably do is break up with her ASAP and move on.
Author SingingSolo Posted May 7, 2013 Author Posted May 7, 2013 (edited) How old are you guys? Honestly, the best thing you can probably do is break up with her ASAP and move on.I'm 27 and she's 26. This is what I've been thinking ever since hearing her talk that way about me. I guess I don't have to waste any more of my time on someone who will probably never commit to me. If I'm really not the one for her, I'll let her go. Though I really saw her as the one a while back, just was afraid of this very same thing that happened; a complete rejection as a whole. This might be too harsh but to some point, I feel used. Why did she relied on her friend instead of being honest with me about not feeling the same, that way I wouldn't have invested further time? Edited May 7, 2013 by SingingSolo
FitChick Posted May 7, 2013 Posted May 7, 2013 I think she's become bored. Suggest that each of you start dating other people but still date each other. She might realize that she doesn't want to lose you. People often want what they can't have.
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