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Women: When a guy checks you out?


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My question is do you like it, or are you weirded out when you catch a (Normal and average to above average looks) guy checking you out as you walk by? Sometimes I get caught because the girl turns around after she walks by, but I can't help it if she has a nice booty. I don't know if she senses that I am going to check her out or if she is checking me out also? Because I usually wait until they are in front of me if I am sitting down or something.

 

In those situations what do you think? I always wonder why they look back sometimes and what they think of me when I get caught.

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That's simple.

 

If the guy is hot, we love it.

If the guy is not hot, we find it creepy.

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That's simple.

 

If the guy is hot, we love it.

If the guy is not hot, we find it creepy.

 

Pretty much this, but if it's a "leer" (stare with soul-less eyes) we are scared, but a half-smirk and a head-tilt...I'm totally checking that guy out too if he's my type. I hate when I walk by a group of guys and they all bump each other and laugh. I get self-conscious. Feeling the looks follow you and the group goes silent... now that I can work with. (My hips swing when I walk naturally, so I'm quite adjusted to being checked out...) :laugh:

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Flattered by a hot guy is one.

 

Creeped out by an unattractive guy is two.

 

There's another reaction too.

 

Women have laughed at me before when they think I'm checking them out. It's happened a few times. Not too often. Sometimes I wasn't even checking them out, just staring out my car window. Apparently some women think the idea of a guy like me thinking there's a chance with them to be so ludicrous as to be beyond creepy and into comical.

 

Though I'd say, most women aren't like that. They'd just be creeped out. :lmao:

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Depends on how and where he's checking me out. Some guys do a once over that's less threatening and creepy. Other guys stare at t&a in a really crude and discourteous manner.

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.... I hate when I walk by a group of guys and they all bump each other and laugh. I get self-conscious. ...

 

Yes, that's so impolite. I've hated that when girls do it since I was a child. Being a hefty kid, you can feel the malice and humiliation. And even if you grow out of it and into a gorgeous hunk where it's more likely you're getting leered at favorably and joked about in sexually flattering ways, it still feels the same as look at that freak over there, isn't he disgusting.

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Handsome guy = girl's heart skips a beat and she feels euphoric and smiles at him

 

Ugly guy = girl feels disgusted and shows a look of contempt on her face

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It's how you do it too. I mean if you're oogling her like she's a piece of meat, she's probably not going to like it. But just a glance, she'd have to be a total bitch to be creeped out. I get flattered when anyone checks me out, even if it's a gay man. Hey, they have the best taste, after all!

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