ellaaaxoxo Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 So my bf of 5 months went to different universities 3 hrs away. we would only see each other once a week sometimes twice a week. the situation was horrible but we made it work by video chatting. but a couple weeks ago it started getting strange because i felt he was treating me like a friend for example we never would hold hands in public, never kissed in public, sometimes awkward silence. i confronted him about it he said the distance has been strange and it sucked but he really loved me still. well the last week of classes was horrible doing all my finals and he never called me, just texted back and forth which pissed my off but i got over it because summer vacation for me was coming meaning more time to spend together. well when classes ended last week we hung out that night everything went fine and we talked about how amazing it would be now that i was only 1 hr away. but at the end of the date he said "so what do u think of us now?" i laughed saying everything is fine no worries. he said "well ive been thinking all last week and i didnt want to bother you during ur final exams but i think its better if we end it also cuz the spark is lost and distance is gonna get worse" i was sooo shocked. 5 minutes later i was like ok and then i left, he wanted a hug but i said no and left. we havent spoken since. Its been a week now and on his website he wrote "Have I made a huge mistake? Idk who I am, what I do or why I do it.I’ve become so lost I’ve lost myself. God give me the wisdom to know. Ur the the place I need to grow" do you think it relates to us? he always use to say how it was fate he found me by God. Im sooo confused why he hasnt said anything. What we had cant end like this, even thou i love him i would want to still be friends because i truly care about his well being. I feel that the distance messed with him and he gave up on us not thinking about this summer. or maybe the spark is really lost.What do you think about this situation? please give me whatever advice because i really feel lost.
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