bella_ribelle Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 (edited) My boyfriend and I have been dating for about three months and a half. On tuesday last week, he told me to not text him since his dad was taking his phone. He didnt tell me what for or until when he was gonna get his phone he just told me he would text me when he got it back. I said okay. He said "i'll text you when i get it back i love you so much". His dad doesnt know that we're bf/gf since according to him, his dad doesnt let him have a girlfriend, but to me thats stupid since hes 21. That was it for the day. On Wednesday night around 7, he called restricted to my moms phone looking for me but my mom was at church. My mom told me he called restricted and i asked him why but he said he didnt so i sent him a pic of the call and he didnt say anything. I was kind of mad because he didnt tell me anything then he called restricted. i let him know i was angry and he kinda got mad himself. He asked me "why you gotta be like this?" i told him "because thats messed up, you couldve told me. you know how i get." then he said "text you in a bit" but he never did. He hasnt texted me since. He doesnt respond to my texts, he doesnt call me, he doesnt answer my calls, he ignores my calls sometimes. Just out of no where. Its Monday and still no replies from him. I dont know if he dumped me or whats going on. Usually, when we fight or argue he tells me its over and hes done with me but then hes being all lovey dovey with me. Maybe his dad found out? I dont know whats going on or why hes doing this. How much longer do I wait? Im really confused and scared, i dont know what to make of this. If its any help, were both Capricorns. Were 4 years apart, Im 17 hes 21. He has a son he takes care of all on his own (since he adopted him), two jobs, and school. Edited May 6, 2013 by bella_ribelle extra info
KatZee Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 You do know this kid is playing you, right? The reason why he doesn't want anyone knowing you're dating is because you're probably the piece on the side. Really wouldn't shock me if the restricted call came from his girlfriend or baby's mom trying to find out if he's cheating on her and who you are. Kind of makes sense why he got all quiet after you showed him the phone log. You're 17 so it makes sense why you're so naive. It's not that his dad won't let him date, it's bc this guy is a sneak. It's why he doesn't call you, why he ignores you, etc.
CompleteFailure Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 His dad forbids him to date because he doesn't want another unexpected grand kid!
Author bella_ribelle Posted May 6, 2013 Author Posted May 6, 2013 You do know this kid is playing you, right? The reason why he doesn't want anyone knowing you're dating is because you're probably the piece on the side. Really wouldn't shock me if the restricted call came from his girlfriend or baby's mom trying to find out if he's cheating on her and who you are. Kind of makes sense why he got all quiet after you showed him the phone log. You're 17 so it makes sense why you're so naive. It's not that his dad won't let him date, it's bc this guy is a sneak. It's why he doesn't call you, why he ignores you, etc. Yeah, this is what my best friends have been telling me.. i guess it is valid. We've only been on two legit dates, one out to dinner and the last one was to the movies. We would usually go out to the club instead to dance since thats how we met. I only met his brother once and like 4 of his cousins. Its finally setting in though, just like everyone was telling me. So, Im single now! Just in time for summer! Thank you.
Author bella_ribelle Posted May 6, 2013 Author Posted May 6, 2013 His dad forbids him to date because he doesn't want another unexpected grand kid! Yeah something else, I been doubting. He told me he adopted the baby, which at 21 I think is dumb. According to him, the baby biologically belongs to his best friend and neither him nor his ex gf wanted the baby, so my bf stepped in and took him as his own. I honestly never believed that and the baby looks like him. Ive never even met the baby I only get pictures and Ive heard stuff about the baby being biologically his. The pieces of the puzzle dont go together. Nothing adds up.
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