LoveB86 Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 I'm having a hard time coping with the fact that I was not wanted, not needed to make him happy. He cheated to be with her. 1 month since he ended it and not heard from him. My two mutual friends who I met thru my ex just had a baby. They had been together since high school. He talks about how in love he is with her more and more after 8 years of being together. My other friend been with her boyfriend since she was 14. There about to get married at 22. Happily in love. To me it just reminds that all the excuses of cheating, GIGS, dumping you to be with another girl/guy, commitment phobes, all that is just excuses! These people are in love and are doing everythin they can to make it work. Why am I being tossed to the side for another woman who he only known for 1-2 months! I am sooooo sad that I don't know what to do anymore. My ex and his gf are official of 1 month and why why why am I being tossed like a tissue after you wipe your nose with.
Author LoveB86 Posted May 6, 2013 Author Posted May 6, 2013 (edited) Well am not coping at all actually. I just don't know what I am doing anymore. I work across the street from them, so am just tired of being reminded everyday. Never again!! No more on the job relationships, even if they work across the street. BAD BAD BAD!! Edited May 6, 2013 by LoveB86
Author LoveB86 Posted May 6, 2013 Author Posted May 6, 2013 I cannot wait to wake up and not care about how happy he is!!! Someday, I just want to worry about how happy I am and how happy others are with me. I don't want to think about this heartless coward!!! I am at work feeling like I am going to lose my mind. Someone please help me to forget about him!!!
Author LoveB86 Posted May 6, 2013 Author Posted May 6, 2013 She works with him too.. Like was she that convenient to cheat with?? Out of all the girls, he cheated on me with someone I had talked too maybe once or twice. Talk about awkward!!
KatZee Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 That's typically where people DO cheat. Their office. My ex cheated on me and left me for a girl he met at his new job last year. It didn't last longer than 30 days but the ass clown still tried. His loss. 1
KPChick000 Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 Hi LoveB, sorry that you're having a bad day I know how much it hurts to know that your ex is with someone else, so I imagine it is infinitely more painful to actually witness him with someone else. Please try to keep busy at work and not worry about what is going on across the street. Know that you're not alone. I'm going through something similar, although my ex did not cheat on me with her. And thankfully, I will NEVER have to see them together in person. Keep your head up and know that this will pass!!
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