foxxës Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 So my boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months, and he is amazing he is my best friend. However he is very depressed at the moment, he has a bad relationship with his father, and is currently unemployed. He doesn't really have anything in his life apart from Xbox and Me. The thing i cant deal with is his constant rage. I understand he is unhappy, but he sucks the life out of me, we never go out, his idea of a date is staying in all day while he plays xbox and i watch TV. Money is tight for him, but even when he has money he doesnt want to do anything. We live in the most beautiful part of northamptonshire and he doesnt even want to go out for walks. Also he's american and he hates the food here in this country so we never go out to eat. On valentines we didnt do anything because he wanted to eat steak at home even though i booked us a table out. im not sure if I make him happy anymore. His anger at even the tiniest things makes me upset and pull away and he then becomes hurt because im distant. Im not sure if i can deal with him anymore. Its as if my needs are so insignificant to him. about a week ago i gave him some time to talk to me and he explained how he hates the way he is but hes just so depressed with life. He knows if it carries on I'll want to leave, but somehow this week he's forgotten that conversation even took place and hes taking liberties again I have no idea what to do. I love him but this can't carry on. Im a happy outgoing person and I feel bad for him but I honestly feel like he's sucking the life out of me.
BluEyeL Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 My ex husband was sort of like that (not 100%,but the constant negativity, unhappiness and anger and not wanting to do things), it was absolutely draining. I'd say you're wasting your life with him, you should leave asap. 1
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