mar-ed Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 (edited) The title was meant to be i need advice & opinions dont know how it went wrong sorry. I don’t really know if this is in the right categories as I am new to this so sorry if I’m not doing it right?!..... Well I’m going through a really rough time, my boyfriend of about 2years now broke up with me but after I begged and pleaded we were back together within 24hours. Its a horrible situation because his dad has cancer and unsure how long he has to live which was his reason of breaking up to concentrate on his dad which I understand completely and I agree that’s what he should be doing at this time, but I love him so much I just could not think of life without him. He said he didn’t want to hurt me by not giving me attention. But was really upset and undecided on the break up. Believe me I am far from a high maintenance girlfriend I don’t need any special attention and never ask for anything. I know you might think I am selfish and I have been in a constant struggle with myself over this, I feel guilty making someone be with me if they don’t want to? and for not letting him go and concentrate on his dad. The pain of guilt and the fear of losing my boyfriend is tearing me apart. I have been giving him lots of space I do not text or call him (he wasn’t ever big on communication anyways) unless it is my day off I to go see him. I wait every 10days to 2weeks before I see him and only stay one night. It seems to be working well as he seemed excited to see me last time as he was bursting to tell me about what he has been up to. Do you think I should get over my selfishness and let him concentrate on his dad? Has anyone been in a similar situation? If anyone who has/had a parent with cancer what was going through your head, your feelings? (I have never had an experience with illness and a loved one)Do you think he doesn’t want to be with me at all? Sorry for the mix match of questions & I would like to say Thank you to everyone for reading this and to any replies in advance. Edited May 6, 2013 by mar-ed title was wrong?
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