Somethngcreative Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 Hello, I'll try to keep it short.. For months now, I've been trying to get over the girl I like because I thought she was already dating someone. However, no matter what I do I always find myself falling for her all over again. The story goes like this: So, last night I went to a bar with a new girl (who I thought was the sweetest girl in the world). However, she ended up leaving with another friend of mine while I was nearly passed out at the booth. Ya, that happened lol... Anyways, long story short the girl I like was the one that ended up coming to my rescue. She stayed with me the whole night until I was sober. As she drove me home an interesting thing happened... she asked me, out of the blue, if I was dating anyone right now. I said no, and then she asked me who my ex-gf was. Likewise, I asked her if she was dating anyone. She replied with "no not right now" and that she just wants to fall in love with someone. Also, apparently she told my sister this: "This is going to sound weird because he's your brother but I once considered dating him. But, he's such a good guy and If I ever broke his heart, I would hate myself." What does this mean, Does it mean she only wants to remain as friends or could it be more? Thanks!
will1988 Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 It means, go after her! Ask her out! worse case scenerio is she says no. Just say, woops read the signs wrong, oh well. then move on. Go for it, you honestly have nothing to lose. 1
carhill Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 What does this mean, Does it mean she only wants to remain as friends or could it be more? It means you should be asking more women out on dates. 'Once considered dating him. Good guy'. If you need impetus, there it is. To resolve this issue, ask this young lady whom had such glowing things to say about you on a date. If yes, smile. If no, smile. Take next steps as appropriate. This is where you learn from young ladies. They're not tossing all their eggs into yours or any other young man's basket easily. They 'consider'. You do the same. Encourage them to prove their value to you. Your care and love is a valuable commodity. Don't undersell. Good luck. 1
Author Somethngcreative Posted May 9, 2013 Author Posted May 9, 2013 Thanks for all the advice. I'm not sure if right now is the best time to ask her about it because I don't want to rush her into it. Would it be wrong if I laid low for awhile and allow her to figure it out on her own, I don't mean compeletely disappear from her life but just continue being there for her when she needs me?
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