eternal.denied84 Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 Hi All, Recently I met a girl who seems to be showing some interest in me. When I asked her directly if she likes me yet/ feels I am the one. Her response was that she doesn't get that type of feeling yet, though it might happen with time. I am okay looking, intelligent, tall, smart, well spoken and fun to be with. So what is it that drives female attraction..? Why is she not able to feel the click for me. can I do anything to get her attracted or is this something beyond any rules? All these things such as be an alpha guy, seduction, PUA , attract females by mind games is all waste or does any of these really work ?
todreaminblue Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 Hi All, Recently I met a girl who seems to be showing some interest in me. When I asked her directly if she likes me yet/ feels I am the one. Her response was that she doesn't get that type of feeling yet, though it might happen with time. I am okay looking, intelligent, tall, smart, well spoken and fun to be with. So what is it that drives female attraction..? Why is she not able to feel the click for me. can I do anything to get her attracted or is this something beyond any rules? All these things such as be an alpha guy, seduction, PUA , attract females by mind games is all waste or does any of these really work ? i swear i am about to cry...that or sit in a corner rocking.........there is no alpha....god is alpha just be yourself.....then you will find someone who is just right for you...seduction is a game no one knows the rules for because they keep changing, so does pick up artistry, men get rich thinking of wonderful ways to be fake..and they take your credit card details......... no alpha no beta ....just who you are....stuff the definitions and the rules, who decides them anyway the rules of attraction..some zany eccentric professor/ scientist with no hair thats who....he gets all the women and the pick up artist authors get your money....... just be you is all you can do and be honest about who you are and what you believe in ......so the relationship you have actually lasts..deb
TaraMaiden Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 .....'Feels you are 'the one'... after a 'recent meeting'....? I just... I can't..... Oh my goodness.
Ninjainpajamas Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 (edited) Well first of all, you don't ask a girl if she likes you yet and if you're "the one". You need "game" to establish that, some women will tell you to just be honest and straight-forward but it's not going to work. They'll just look you up and down and friend-zone you. Alpha guy -works on some women Seduction -works on some women, depends on your ability which you don't have any at this time, you'll learn more with experience PUA - never read the stuff myself, probably half-works but it's about execution and confidence, being comfortable in your own skin Mind games - work, more-so on younger women and women who are insecure (which covers a lot) but will give you mixed results with what you want Why she isn't attracted to you is not entirely clear from her point-of-view, but you seem to lack confidence and may be too passive, you need to learn to take the initiative and make bolder moves. Women can hang on the balance with you and one right or wrong move can change their mind in terms of interest. Learn to take chances and risks, if you mess up learn from those lessons and move on. If you're too afraid then you'll always be behind the curve, you've got to get experience to understand women or you'll be left in the dust...so ask them out, get their number, don't hesitate. Edited May 6, 2013 by Ninjainpajamas
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