Skipper888 Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 Hi guys, i need some strength to keep going NC. Started it yesterday and already struggling .. pathetic .. Been broken up for 3 months but we were still contacting eachother every day and night and hooking up when we saw eachother. She told me saturday that i make her mad and since then i told her ill leave her alone.. She through me some breadcrumbs ' oh i just met such and such from a band' ... i just said cool back to it which i shouldnt have ... Just really, really hard, im going back to work later today where ill be away from friends and family for a whole week... Just having a really tough time especially when i know she is out having the time of her life.
Author Skipper888 Posted May 5, 2013 Author Posted May 5, 2013 just really effed cause i dont want to be with anyone else.. i cant imagaine myself doing the things i love doing without her.. Shes probably mad at me cause i have girls talking to me and she probably thinks im out hooking up and all this other stuff ... just hate this feeling
mtnbiker3000 Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 just really effed cause i dont want to be with anyone else.. i cant imagaine myself doing the things i love doing without her.. Shes probably mad at me cause i have girls talking to me and she probably thinks im out hooking up and all this other stuff ... just hate this feeling I strongly suggest staying NC under any circumstances!! Obviously, keeping in contact with her is hurting you a great deal. I couldn't deal with knowing what my ex was up to, so NC has been really necessary for me. Of course, you will wonder when you don't know. But I think that is better than knowing...
Inviv_girl Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 You don't want to know what your ex- up too. Love yourself and don;t contact someone who doesn't want you in their life. NC is probably for the best! I should do that for myself too:rolleyes:
lonewalker Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 just really effed cause i dont want to be with anyone else.. i cant imagaine myself doing the things i love doing without her.. Shes probably mad at me cause i have girls talking to me and she probably thinks im out hooking up and all this other stuff ... just hate this feeling I think u should tell her honestly that u aint hoking anyone becoz u are healing... And u r not the sort that jump into rebound. Add that she should know ur character better. And that u are going to stop contacting her becoz u wanted to heal.
Recommended Posts