joystickd Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 At any given moment in time ... you always know what you want. Its true we all do. She has to choose because as a man you never chase. You have to at some point put them in a put up or shut up position.
BoneyHadger Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 I don't enjoy the chase at all, and I'm a guy. I do not like this uncertainity of "Does she like me? Does she not like me?". I assume other person is sensible enough to communicate it in a way, so another one has no doubts. If they don't, I assume they aren't interested.
crederer Posted May 18, 2013 Posted May 18, 2013 I guess it depends. If she is showing some interest during the chase, sure that's fine. If she is just playing straight up games then I don't want to be with a person like that anyways. But all in all, no I don't like the chase. If you're interested, let me know, thanks.
bob the brave Posted May 18, 2013 Posted May 18, 2013 Mostly 1. Seems logical that guys who like to be chased would initiate to get things rolling. Though I've never met a guy who likes to be chased. It's usually the other way around. It also seems a guy who is using a girl would follow the same MO as 2. Personally I think chasing is immature BS. I think two people should just be adults, get to know each other and let nature take it's course whichever way that is. However, I have found that usually fails terribly. Many women, except for the very smart and confident, need seduction, the chase to make them feel wanted, valuable. If you don't do that they think you are a jerk. I have found this to be true for most women in varying degrees.
El Brujo Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 To me the challenge is not in the chase. The challenge is in how you work on yourself in such a way that women will want to approach you.
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