hppr Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 My bet is that deep down you don't really want a relationship. If you did you wouldn't be dating those sorts of men, talking about how you dated attractive decent men but didn't feel sparks, etc. It's not a lack of sparks or attraction it's realizing that they want more than you want to give, that they want a real commitment and intimacy. You want to be independent, you want to travel, that's fine, but good men looking to settle down probably won't be interested in your independence or your traveling wants. They're going to be 'settle-down' types who are thinking about marriage and family.
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