jeni4566 Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 I posted previously about having a crush on a guy who's kinda of mentoring me. We don't work in the same company, but we work in the same field. We had lunch, then went for a walk, a total of 3 hours' meeting. He was very helpful and gave me a lot of good advice. I followed your guys' advice, gave him some compliments, then touched his arm a few times. At the end, he didn't make any suggestions about meeting again. We laughed a lot, talked about personal and professional stuff, but he didn't flirt with me nor did he touch me at all. Do you think he's into me or he's just being helpful? The advice here is excellent. If you guys think he's not into me, I'll move on. Have a great Sunday!
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 I posted previously about having a crush on a guy who's kinda of mentoring me. We don't work in the same company, but we work in the same field. We had lunch, then went for a walk, a total of 3 hours' meeting. He was very helpful and gave me a lot of good advice. At the end, he didn't make any suggestions about meeting again. I followed your guys' advice, gave him some compliments, then touched his arm a few times. Do you think he's into me or he's just being helpful? The advice here is excellent. If you guys think he's not into me, I'll move on. Have a great Sunday! Seems like you did all of the right things. Either he's shy or isn't into you. Either way, it's best to move on. Tough break, but good luck with future guys! 2
Author jeni4566 Posted May 5, 2013 Author Posted May 5, 2013 Thanks so much HoneyBager It's my first time to be friend zoned. It sucks, but I feel grateful that someone is taking an interest in me professionally to want me to succeed. I appreciate your message! 2
Author jeni4566 Posted May 5, 2013 Author Posted May 5, 2013 Does it mean anything or not that after we had lunch, he said lets go somewhere else, then we went for a walk in the park? 1
todreaminblue Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 Does it mean anything or not that after we had lunch, he said lets go somewhere else, then we went for a walk in the park? could be he enjoys your company......just see how things go ......dont get caught up min it....i believe if a guy truly like you he will make his move .....some just take a little longer than others....especially if there is shyness involved.......best wishes....deb 1
Author jeni4566 Posted May 5, 2013 Author Posted May 5, 2013 Thanks so much for the advice. I don't get the feeling that he's shy at all. He's young, successful, and he knows it. When he drove me back, he kept pointing at the restaurants, popular hangouts. He seems like a man around town or a playera.
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