IAmRobot Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 Me and my gf have been in a happy R for a few months now. However a few days ago we were at a common social outing with common friends. I went and talked to all of my friends while she was doing the same. (Apparently as I later discovered, she was really disturbed by a girl that was kind of flirting with me, although she's a friend of mine and has a bf and I was doing literally nothing but talking to her.) We went to the bar after and she seemed very off. After a while some of my own friends came and when we went to the bar *together* she started talking to one of them she barely knew, almost completely forgetting that I was there. She was also being a bit touchy and drunk to him. When the night ended I said we should go home. She was again very off. And on the way to the car she got lost with other friends. I honestly had enough so me and my friends left. She called, I asked if she needed a ride, she said no, so I told her let's meet back at my place. She did and as soon as she came in started crying hysterically. I was a bit pissed off, but seeing her cry melted me a bit. So I comforted her. But she would not even talk to me. She wanted to leave a few times, but I held her back. After she finished crying we ****ed for a good hour and that was it. In the morning we talked. She said she was really annoyed at that girl flirting at me, that I wasnt giving her enough attention during the night and that I left her and drove away. We had an amazing time at the beach the day after, but I am still pretty annoyed at this whole thing. She just seems very selfish and all about her feelings and I am turned off by that. Ideas?
veggirl Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 Are there most instances like this? I don't know, nothing you said seems like a huge deal, just mostly drunken emotions being exaggerated. Well the flirting would piss me off, but the rest just sounds like typical emotions running too high because alcohol was flowing too freely. On both of your ends.
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