Lc1984 Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 My ex and I were best friends for a year before we dated. We broke up in January on not very good terms. He had only just come out of a long relationship and I have trust issues which meant I was upset all the time. I tried to maintain contact but he wasn't interested at all. He said with us it could either be all or nothing and it was nothing. So, I called him about a month ago and said I missed being friends and said I'd like to be friends in the future. He said he would too. I also asked if he had a new girlfriend and he said no. So, he text me about two weeks after just about a private joke we used to have and we text back and forth a few times. Then yesterday I text him about something that used to make us both laugh. We had a couple of texts the I asked if he was free to catch up. He wasn't free on the day I said but suggested another specific day. I've said I'm free that day and I'm looking forward to it and he said he was too and then started to arrange what we're doing. So, I need advice on a couple of things....if he was seeing someone new (which I obviously don't know) would he still want to see me? I'm trying to work out the likelihood that he's with someone. Secondly, why does he want to see me? I'm not sure how I feel about him but I do miss him and don't know if I'm just setting myself up for a fall. Any thoughts would be great. Thank you
OwlSoul Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 So, I need advice on a couple of things....if he was seeing someone new (which I obviously don't know) would he still want to see me? Depends on the person. But I think only someone who needs to have sex with different people could go for seeing 2 girls with romantical intention. Males usually try to push girls away when they are dating someone new and feeling to the new person are fresh. And meh, you are the one who asked him out. If you were clear about your intentions, then he is most likely to be positive about you. If you were not clear, then... So welp: a) He wants to see you as a friend, because he feels guilty. b) He wants to see you to decide what he is feeling. c) He wants you. 2
Author Lc1984 Posted May 5, 2013 Author Posted May 5, 2013 Thank you for your reply! I'm so confused about the whole situation!! I don't think it's because he feels guilty, it's not his style, and I think he would have just said he wasn't free on the day I asked but he suggested another day and then also suggested what we do..... I think I'm just panicking that he's with someone else...but I trust the fact you said its unlikely he'd see me if he was, that was sort of what I've been thinking. Sorry for waffling on!
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