grayfox Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 Ok so here goes. Ive recently split up with my long term partner. We was together 9 years and like every relationship we had our ups n downs. We had a child and in my eyes I never thought it was gonna end. Just over a year ago she cheated and since then it was never really right but we tried to keep it together, it was going well till round xmas time when she started been cold n distance again. I found out that she was talking to someone else and it seemed like something was going on. This let to a massive fight at the end of march and we split up and I moved back to my parents. She said that nothing happened between them but she had stopped loving me like she should. About a month later she arranged to meet an old school friend and they hit it off. He shown up at the house a week later and ended up meeting the kids. From what shes told me, they have already spoken about marriage n shes admitted to me that she wants another child with him even thou she said to me that she would never have anymore. He seems to be spending money on her and the kids as he has loads to spare. My head is in bits over it all. I cant do no contact because Im seeing my daughter everyday but its very limited contact like asking when im coming for her and when im dropping her off. At the minute my moods are all over the place. I just dont know what to do with it all :-(
esteem-jam Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 How old are you? I imagine your pain, cause this got my attention: I moved back to my parents. And hes spending money on the chick and child... means he has money. You are better without somebody who cheats and plans behind your back.
Author grayfox Posted May 5, 2013 Author Posted May 5, 2013 Im 33. Over the last 2 month ive come to realise she did the whole moving on while we was together. This new bloke wasnt happening when we was together. I just didnt really see it coming but she knew it was. Thats y it hurts so much. It was unexpected by me. I know/knew her but shes in lala land at the minute. I know that its all for the best and that she didnt deserve someone like me. I would love to have no contact with her but its impossible because I wouldnt see my daughter and thats something I just couldn't do.
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