NiceGuy87 Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 My girlfriend of 3 months broke up with me a couple days ago. We were seeing each other for about a month before she decided she wanted to start dating me officially. Before we started going out she told me that's the most important thing to her is that there will be no sex before marriage and we had sex about a month into the relationship. It was her that came on to me and everything. Another thing is that she never wanted to take a picture with me and would always make up excuses about it. I eventually did take a picture with her on my cell phone. We booked a trip about a month ago to go on a vacation in June. The day she breaks up with me, she says that we are moving too fast and that she needs space so she also says that she is not ready to go on a vacation with me. That we have not been together long enough so she cancels the vacation. I then hear from her later that night. She tells me that she is not happy with me. She says that I am too clingy and that I text and call her too much. She then tells me that she has been feeling like this for about a week and that she will always still love me. She still lives with her parents and is the process of trying to buy a house but her parents are against her going out with me so much from what I can figure out. Just last week she told me that she can see herself marrying me and about if we ever have kids together. When she broke up with me she told me not to text or call her for 2 months. I do not think she is talking to anybody else As I am her first relationship in 4 years. She told me she has not been able to find anybody since then that she would want to be with. So does anybody have any suggestions on why she might have broke up with me? I'm willing to bet that there is more to it then what she told me. Also is it possible to try to get her back? I know she is very mad at me for basically nothing.
TaraMaiden Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 She sounds like hard work, a drama queen and she obviously has issues if she sets boundaries then allows them to be broken, or breaks them herself. Please, just split. She's clearly 'projecting'. That is, whatever problems she has, she's in denial, and making out that YOU are the one with the problems... Not a cool situation. She sounds immature, and I think the classic "Man, you just dodged a bullet!" seems wholly appropriate here. Take account of your behaviour, and honestly, where you went wrong, take responsibility for that aspect, but then, move on. 2
Author NiceGuy87 Posted May 5, 2013 Author Posted May 5, 2013 Well I am doing the best I can to try to move on. Everything was perfect until about a week ago when I noticed that she was acting different. My friend told me that he guarantees she will contact me again soon. My last ex did and everything was alot worse than this by far so i am sure he is right
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