Why does she do this

[Skipper888]

Hi guys i need some advice/motivation. Broke up with ex over 3 months ago ( i have made a number of threads in last couple of days about it all). Basically we have been on again off again, mainly off. We have been texting every day/night and i found on monday she hooked up with some random a month after we broke up.

 

Anyways we had an argument and she had been distant and standoffish every since. Yesterday we had another argument because ive had enough. I basically was not talking to her and she msged saying ' babe if your not talking to me just tell me'

 

Which i replied ' what do you want from me '

 

Which she replied ' nothing, i dont want anything'

 

me : ' then why do you talk to me and see? '

 

her: ' i dont know'

 

her: ' i dont know what going on but i just feel mad'

 

me ' about what '

 

her: ' you just make me mad'

 

me: ' okay then well ill leave you alone'

 

Things were left there until she texted me at 10 last night this is how the conversation went down

 

her: 'nothing, okay'

 

me: 'look xxxxxx, you broke up with me months ago when you decided that your life was happier without me in it. its what you wanted '

 

her: 'wtf, thats not the reason why i broke up with you, My life was about a million times better and easier when i was with u'

 

me: 'okay, well i feel like all i do is make make you mad, so its best if i just leave you alone, its what i want' (actually made a typo was meant to say what u want)

 

her: 'its what you want'?

 

then i fell asleep

 

so i wrote this, this morning

 

' look babe, you broke up with me 3 months ago. You decided that you didnt want me to be apart of your life anymore and you are happier without me in it. Its what you wanted.. so im just going to leave you alone for good now.'

 

her: 'sorry i was a bitch last night, i was drunk'

 

and i left it there. grrr just so annoying like why does she keep talking to me and stuff when she doesnt want me. I feel like texting her back and trying to work things out between us but i know its useless. She doesnt communicate with me hence why we broke up in the first place and why things are always 'iffy' between us because something will happen and i want to talk about things and she just ignores me and the problem which makes things worse.

 

I really dont have any questions or anything. I'm just annoyed at how she says i make her mad. FFS i wasnt the one out hooking up with ppl and then didnt even tell me about it. Gosh i told her i was texting some girl cause i thought we needed to be honest in order to rekindle our relationship. She ended up not talking to me for 3 days and then ended things again which lasted about 2 hrs cause she immediately msged me saying this is so hard.

 

If anything i should be the one thats mad and had enough. So annoyed that she said that.

 

she just msged me. ' i just met 'such and such' from a band' cause she is at a festival

 

grrr just want to be left alone and not know what she is doing

[Keenly]

This is how women behave sometimes man. They break up with you, they mention or you find out that they talk to / hook up with other guys. Then they start fishing for your attention again, acting like you were the one that messed things up.

 

Mention that you have been talking to / met any other guy and they get all pissed off like your engaged or something, even though its okay for them to do it.

 

Just tell her straight up " you left me, now you have to deal with the consequences of that decision. now leave me alone"

[Skipper888]

yeah i told her ..she broke up with me cause her life is better without me, its what she wanted to do, and im leaving her alone for good, yet she will keep texting me grrrr

[cavalier99]

......and you keep responding. If you want to get over her go hard core NC and block her. Cav