Sookie1 Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 Well my guy friend is very affectionate with me. He holds my hand, we makeout, and everyone who witnesses our 'friendship' says we ARE a couple, but this guy never says we are. I've found myself wanting more attention, and I talked to a close friend about how I was starting to feel and she says I don't deserve any more than he gives, beacuse we're just friends. That frustrates me. Why would he do this? He's not getting sex. We've been friends for 2 years and it slowly built up to this. Why won't he just ask me out? I would really love to have a conversation with him about this, but how do I carefully approach this situation? I feel like it'll make things really awkward, and deep down, I feel like he doesn't even want to be with me. I think he's just attracted to me, but I don't think he's really interested in starting anything. Maybe he's just interested in a FWB thing, it's just weird. And yes, I would be interested in dating him. How do I talk to him without scaring him away or making things uncomfortable? I've never been with a guy except him, so I'm very inexperienced with this.
BluEyeL Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 Don't tell him anything, he needs to bring it up for it to stick. He won't step up unless he will think he is losing you, and ONLY if he is actually intereste in you romantically. Try to involve other guys in your life and just hint that other men are interested. For example ask him for advice about other guys. Don't always make out with him when he asks, sometimes do, sometimes treat him as a gay best friend. 1
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