joanna13 Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 (edited) I've "met" this guy online, while I was posting about my ex who I've met and dated not so long ago and our love issues! I was really honest since I am anonymous on this site, I just felt sad and I needed a good advice. Then some guy IMed me. He really said awesome things to me and gave me good advices, because he was in the same situation as me, when a girl he dated just went acting bipolar like my guy, so he dumped her. He gave me his number if I want to text him and talk with him about it. Great now a complete stranger knows all intimate stuff about me, I really let it go on this site since I was anonymous. I even talked about sex with my ex That day we started to chat about everything, I've realised we have a lot of things in common, then he sent me his pic, so I sent him mine. He liked it, I liked his and that was it. We laughed all the time texting the whole 4 days almost 24/4. He asked me out almost immediately, but I couldn't go, I was so busy that week. Next week when I've resolved my issues, I asked him out he said he couldn't make it that he was busy right now. Then other week since I'll be a Godmother to my adorable little future friend, I had to do a lot of things too and organise a babyshower that weekend, anyway we didn't meet too. Those situations when we couldn't meet, were going on for 2 weeks, but he always intitiated the contact all the time, he really showed a lots of interests into me. A day after the babyshower, we texted for a while and he said he was going to be in my neighbourhood. I said ok, I am getting sober. Since I was hangovered, I didn't ask him to meet me spontaneously. I texted something after I woke up, he didn't reply, he vanished for a couple of days. I've thought he blew me off. But he doesn't seem like a guy who plays games, so I asked him whats up.. He said he had an accident and that he hurt his face pretty badly , but that it wasn't so serious. I just told him that I hope he will get well soon and we talked about some stuff. I really didn't want to bother this guy much, so I waited for a week and asked him if he is doing better. So, we chatted whole day that day. Since then nothing. That was a week ago. I really don't know how to act or react in those situations. Should I ask him again how is he doing or something? I mean I don't know this guy, he was into me so much and now nothing. I know he is recoverying and that I shouldn't expect him to wanting to be in contact with me, it's just that he is a stranger. Am I a bitch for thinking at the moments that he made this whole thing up and to blow me off? He can reply to my texts, so he can initiate them again. Its a wierd situation, but I can understand it, if this happened to me, I wouldn't give a f...about anyone. Since I said he is a stranger, I googled him he does exist and everything he said was true. Should I text him again. Well, I know we won't be able to meet really soon I don't even expect it, he needs to get well. I would just like some insight on what should I do. Should I wait for him to contact me or should I ask how he is and not to be a bitch. Is 7 days a long period or not. I feel like a lost kid with a first crush. I didn't planned this, I don't know why I started to like this guy in the first place, why I told him all the stuff about me and why I want to see him. The good thing is that I don't think about my ex anymore. Life is so wierd and unpredictable, and now these issues and accidents that happen, so that we couldn't meet at all. I think I like him because it all happened spontaneously, i don't really trust internet strangers Edited May 4, 2013 by joanna13
Author joanna13 Posted May 5, 2013 Author Posted May 5, 2013 Forget my post, I was just over thinking. I think he is not lying or that he blew me off, he just had bad luck I'll text him tomorrow, my real question was if I was a bitch for feeling "stupid" if I am the one texting him first since his accident and waiting for couple of days. I just wanted to give this guy a brake, since he needs to rest and have his peace. Does it make me a cold bitch who doesn't care at all, waiting for a week? I just hope that he isn't making lame exuses, it would be horible, I don't even want to think about it. I was just confused. I turned him down because I was so busy, then he turned me down because something came up, then he had this accident Never mind, I guess he would not even respond to me fast and immediately if he wasn't interested I don't know why he stopped initiating contact, he can reply to me. He can at least ask me how am I in those 7 days Now I sound selfish, like he would think of some stranger when he has a lot of things to take care of lately
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