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What i mean is, im in a confusing state in my 21 year old male life. Im single and i dont know what to do about being sexually active with other women. I want to be sexually active with them, dont get me wrong, but i dont know if its the right thing to do. Should i just not care and just use protection and not regret my young life and just go with the flow. It seems like that is what everyone else is doing now in days, so why not change with them; guess you could say im kinda old school and actually have a conscious and morals.

 

I think im in this dilemma cause i used to sleep around, but then i got in a serious relationship and that broke off and now i dont know what to do in that department. Being in that relationship changed me and made me want to be the better man, but now i just dont know. So thats why im here asking this question wondering if any other guys have been in my shoes and what other women believe i should do.What would you think if you started talking to a guy and he didnt sleep around, but wanted to get to have a connection with the person first. Would you think that the 21 year old guy is stupid and wasting his adolescence, and not having that much experience be a turn off or you would find him more attractive. Guess you could also so im more of the boyfriend type and i dont want to waste my life. Im just kinda lost, and i hope somebody can give me some kind of advice.

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you sound like you have aspergers sydrome, i bet you get depression as well for no reason?

 

If so go online and do an AS test (about 20 questions), it will tell you, if you are then you will never think like others do and that will answer your question.

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@apple or orange: That seems like a bit of an uninformed and quickly made assertion.

 

 

People are different. Some people don't like the idea of sleeping around, religious or not. That's fine.

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@apple or orange: That seems like a bit of an uninformed and quickly made assertion.

 

 

People are different. Some people don't like the idea of sleeping around, religious or not. That's fine.

 

 

 

 

2 things here.

 

1. Prove me wrong.

2. Never said he had it, however i see patterns VERY fast, i said go online and do a test to check, its free, if not, great, if he is then I will have saved him 15 years of hell.

 

Hows is either of the above not helping?

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you sound like you have aspergers sydrome, i bet you get depression as well for no reason?

 

If so go online and do an AS test (about 20 questions), it will tell you, if you are then you will never think like others do and that will answer your question.

 

I am not that, I even did the test so no haha. What else you got for me lol?

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