DDS Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 My Fiance and I have been together 3 years, but have known each other for over 10. We have lived together for 1.5yrs along with my 8 year old son. About 5 months ago my dad became ill and has recently passed, my fiancé was also in a critical car accident and almost died, we experienced a lot of stress and seemed to argue more than we ever had before. In Feb. after a small argument he decided to move out, he went and stayed at an extended stay hotel, during that time I found out he had a female friend who he was talking to, I was understanding she was just a friend. During this time we put kept in touch, he spent time with my son, April 2nd we started counseling and he wanted to come home. We talked everything out, he agreed not to speak to the female friend again and ended that friendship over the phone in front of me. Everything seemed great and back to our family life, then April 12th we had a normal morning, he kissed us bye and we left for work and school. He even text me abt 10am and said he hoped I was having a good day and he loved me. Then when I called him about noon I was blocked from calling his phone, I then realized he had taken his phone off our joint account. I went home and walked in the house and he had moved out again, taken everything, didn't leave a note, I wasn't able to call him, text, I was blocked on email and facebook. I was left heartbroken, confussed and had to explain this to my son when he got home from school. 2 days later I was told that he put a picture on facebook of this "friend" and said they were in a relationship. I have heard he moved in with her now. It's been 3 weeks and I haven't heard anything or been able to contact him at all. He hasn't even spoke to my son, who he always treated as his own. I cry everyday and I can't figure out how to get past the hurt. This was so out of character for him, he was always into family, church, honesty.
ForeverHopeful1 Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 (edited) I am honestly sitting here with my mouth dropped wide open. My heart breaks reading this. What a friggin nightmare! It is so messed up when you think you know someone, and then they turn into someone you have never met and someone you don't care to know. If this was something enforced by her, and he wasn't ok with not speaking to you anymore, he would have been trying to message you. Somehow. So it seems it was his choice to just completely disappear which was not fair after 3 years and after starting counselling, moving back in and trying to fix things. The least you can do is telling me you're leaving me!!!!!!!!! I cannot believe he blocked you from absolutely everything. I don't know why he would think he would have to go that far. It sounds a little extreme. I just wish you the best and you deserve better than this. The fact that he has done this to your son as well bothers me, as he is absolutely innocent in this. I'm really sorry for all the pain you're in but I'm glad you found this site. There are people who have gone through what you're going through. Xoxox Edited May 4, 2013 by ForeverHopeful1
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