Author Estate Posted May 14, 2013 Author Posted May 14, 2013 Huh? Who said that I was trying to school ANYONE? You told me I am wrong. That you SHOULDN'T listen to women talk... because it's pointless. And you shouldn't talk to women because it's pointless. The world is against us all... except the "dicks" of course... wah wah wah.
PogoStick Posted May 14, 2013 Posted May 14, 2013 Notice how often these guys are focused on "the other guys". That women must want whatever they are not. It's better to be a dick and not remember her conversation...Are you crazy! Women will love it if you remember things about them. They're attention hos and want that validation from you. I know some of you are going to say the follow points are contradictory but they really are not: Sure, If you remember crazy details then that's creepy "Hey didn't you say you have coffee at Finnigans every third thursday at 10 am with your grandma?" but you could say "I think it's sweet you spend time with your grandma. What is it that you always do together?" And now you have a conversation. Here's the problem. When you only have 1 girl in your life you are going to fixate and remember all the stupid details. Now what if you have 10 female friends, 3 or 4 you're chasing? You're going to mix stuff up and not possibly keep track of all the details. That's actually good. Now you're in demand. Mix her up with one of the other girls. "Did you say your favorite team is the Bears?"..."uh no"! Now she's not on your pedestal. Now she has to work harder for your attention. There are complex levels of psychology going on here. That's not being a dick, that's having options. It's not black or white, it's finding a balance between showing interest but making her work for it.
ltjg45 Posted May 14, 2013 Posted May 14, 2013 You told me I am wrong. No, I didn't. I never said anything concerning what I said was universally correct. I merely said that just because you listen really well doesn't mean women will always appreciate it.
Author Estate Posted May 14, 2013 Author Posted May 14, 2013 No, I didn't. I never said anything concerning what I said was universally correct. I merely said that just because you listen really well doesn't mean women will always appreciate it. Did you even read what I said? Listening means HEARING what is said and then advancing the conversation based on what you just heard... NOT sitting there like a twig.
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