lunar83 Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 Hi! I am new at this forum and I am not an English speaking originally :-) so please understand my mistakes. Anyway I know this might be a rant, but I would reallly like some opinions of what you think. I broke up with my "BF" two months ago, becouse I thought there was no point continuig, since I didn't feel like he cared about my feelings at all. He would cancel dates at last minutes forgot about my birthdate,...also no wish to see me..etc..I know it was my mistake to start the relationship at all since he is straight out of a divorce, but he would keep telling me that he loved me and that I am to quick to give up...nedless to say I haven't seen him more than twice a month... kept me doubting about myself keep thinking maybe I should put more faith in to him. After we stoped going out, we heard eachother once a week and agreed to stay friends. He seamed like a really nice guy. Another think that really bothered me was, that besides his sister nobody knew about us, I was understanding, he has two kids and I didn't want to disturbed them...so I kept myself disrete on FB, couse he would kept on saying, that his kid was upset for him to date this soon. So here comes yesterday, he is my friend on FB I saw him parading aroud the park with another woman all over FB, all his kids are his friends, so I am pretty sure they have seen it. My question is basically what is his deal here, I feel so stupid..I delated him on FB last night. So sorry but I am so mad at him..don't want to hear from him again. Just opinions please?
intigo Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 sometimes actions speak louder than words ok he said he loved you but what did he do for you?i dont want to offend you but in my opinion this man played with you. You deserve better than this there are a lot of single guys out there who arent afraid to say they have a relationship with you.
HumptyDumpty Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 Sadly, I think he wasn't into you My ex was similar, nobody knew about our relationship, I had to keep it secret (putting "in a relationship" was impossible since people could have guessed)... It's like having those brown fast-food bags over your head, and it's not nice being treated this way. Even to look at new pics with his new gf... Nothing that could be done, he certainly didn't deserve your love! Block his facebook, and don't contact/reply! This isn't what true friendship is, he can't even offer you this.... And have a virtual free hug! You got the choice here: me (a girl), a rabbit or a hamster or just all of us Free, 24/24 & unlimited
Author lunar83 Posted May 4, 2013 Author Posted May 4, 2013 Thank you all for your replys. I guess actions speak louder than words. It's actually reliving, knowing that I made the right desicion from the start and though it hurts the whole thing libereted me. It is sad to see though that some people are so inconsiderate about other people's feelings, while you try to preserve others. Even if still confused about divorce and I took this into account when we were toughether one would think twice about his actions even for the sake of a friendship. Oh well you live and you learn I have a lot of other friends to lean on.
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