Tdog123 Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 Ok guys so ive been split up with my ex for just coming to the 3 month mark now, and she has already moved on and is seeing somebody else now thats been going on for a few week. i wont go into how much this has hurt me, thats not what im here to ask. We have a 3 year old boy together so i cant go completely NC with her, so i am trying to implement LC as much as possible and trying to push on through this hard time. this whole week i have barely spoken to her except on wednesday concerning our son. the thing is.. she keeps calling me because apparently our son wants to talk to me.. now this is all ok for me but im not sure if this is having any effect on my LC, every time i see her calling i do not answer the phone.. then i have like a voice mail and its my son talking and i can obviously hear her in the background talking to our son since he obviously doesnt know what is happening when i dont answer the phone. Today she called me like 3 times in about 3 hours and i didnt answer any of them then she texts me with this 'Tony aiden wants f***in talk to u!' she is getting annoyed at the fact i never answer the phone when i see its her calling even though its our son that just wants to talk to me. if it was something important that i needed to know she can text me and i can see what she wants before she rings me, so i know its never anything important. what are your thoughts on this? should i say something about it or just answer the damn phone whenever she calls? not really sure how to react to this any advice is much appreciated
McGriff Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 I say that yes, you answer the phone. Your son shouldn't be caught up in the drama between you and her. If she calls and it's not about talking to or dealing with your son, then get off the phone as quickly as possible.
Author Tdog123 Posted May 4, 2013 Author Posted May 4, 2013 i would just like to add, me and my ex dont really argue or anything there is no drama between us, i just hate the fact what she is doing so soon after our break up but i dont bring that up anymore im just letting her get on with it and hope she falls flat on her face. but she doesnt call me up to fight or anything like that, i just want to keep LC as much as possible and every time i see her calling it sets me back because i wonder what she wants and every time she says its just my son wants to talk to me also thanks for the reply
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