ViresSanctity Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 We know, we know, she's only "staying for the kids" or whatever. 1
dreamingoftigers Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 Guys I can have this lady . . Here's what I'm going to do on monday : I'm going to send my friend to tell that girl "why are you downgrading yourself , d8n that ugly guy" this will make her think her BF is ugly (well basically he is ugly) then I'll start treating her like we d8n . By the way, women generally find it in ridiculously poor form to send your buddy to insult their boyfriend. Pretty much tells them that you think poorly of their choice, view them as an object to be 'had' and that you have no respect for them. It also says that you lack the courage to even say it to her directly. Although, it seems that you do tick all four of the above boxes, so it might be an accurate way to express yourself.
dreamingoftigers Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 I had a " friend" that played musical guys. She's a total trainwreck. At one point when her and her now ex-husband were dating, she got involved with one of his friends. They broke up and got back together later. Then when they married, she got involved with that dude again (!) Then she eventually left her husband for his own brother. Then the brother for his friend. She lived with the friend 6 months, mooched off of him and wrecked his car. He kicked her out. So she got together with his best friend. Messed up. Talking from someone who did get their girlfriend "taken" from them by a "friend," the amount of pain you cause is really unreal. You don't realise how much pain and suffering this guy will go through if you take his girlfriend. It hurts beyond belief, especially if the guy did nothing wrong like me. I went from Cloud 9 to depression, a nervous breakdown and counselling, I had to take it on my own accord to fight my way back and now I'm getting close to Cloud 9 again, 8 months on since the break up. And if you do take her from this guy, you'll be so insecure and jealous around her because you were capable of doing it therefore someone else can do it to you. When you do that sort of damage on someone, it never works out. In my case, my ex cheated on my "friend" and ran off with one of his friends! You get given the same crap as you give to them, and quite frankly you deserve more pain for inflicting pain onto someone who did nothing wrong. Only dish out what you are prepared to take back. I promise if a man takes her away from you when you've taken her from someone else, you won't be prepared for it, and even if you are you'll be heartbroken like everyone else and wondering why you did what you did, and why you got involved with her in the first place.
SweetiePie12 Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 One red flag already see is if she did seriously date the other guy out of "desperation" as you term it. Dating someone who gets in involved with others out of a need to "not be single" smacks of insecurity and poor judgment. Not great to get involved with. It's true. I'd be very wary of someone dating not purely for love, but for convenience. But in high school, proper judgement is not yet fully developed. 1
SweetiePie12 Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 By the way, women generally find it in ridiculously poor form to send your buddy to insult their boyfriend. Well, sending a friend to talk to a person you like is very common in school. I am young enough to remember 1
Harradin Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 I had a " friend" that played musical guys. She's a total trainwreck. At one point when her and her now ex-husband were dating, she got involved with one of his friends. They broke up and got back together later. Then when they married, she got involved with that dude again (!) Then she eventually left her husband for his own brother. Then the brother for his friend. She lived with the friend 6 months, mooched off of him and wrecked his car. He kicked her out. So she got together with his best friend. Messed up. I have to admit, I find it quite sad that women like these are so insecure that they have to leapfrog from one relationship to the other! They don't care who they hurt as long as they remain stable. I just don't understand how people can enter relationships with people like that either, they must know it'll happen to them! I'm kinda glad I don't talk to my ex anymore, not spoken to her/she hasn't spoken to me in nearly 7 months now. The sad part is, I was her first boyfriend and she was very anti cheating, had morales etc, she now clearly has none and has gone off the rails. 1
ViresSanctity Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 I had a " friend" that played musical guys. She's a total trainwreck. At one point when her and her now ex-husband were dating, she got involved with one of his friends. They broke up and got back together later. Then when they married, she got involved with that dude again (!) Then she eventually left her husband for his own brother. Then the brother for his friend. She lived with the friend 6 months, mooched off of him and wrecked his car. He kicked her out. So she got together with his best friend. Messed up. She needs to find guys who agrees to have open relationships instead of being with guys who commit.
ViresSanctity Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 Well, sending a friend to talk to a person you like is very common in school. I am young enough to remember It's usually to tell the other person they like them or gather information if that person likes them. I don't remember sending someone to insult anyone . 1
dreamingoftigers Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 She needs to find guys who agrees to have open relationships instead of being with guys who commit. It wouldn't matter. She uses everyone for everything (frankly). She'd still suck the life and wallet out of "open relationship" guy. In fact, at the end she championed her husband for an "open relationship." He said "okay" so she took his brother downstairs 5 minutes later and did it with him. The husband was pretty shocked. Although it still took him a few weeks to clue in that *maybe* there was something going on before he gave the okay. And that no, he wasn't *obligated* to stay in a relationship where it was simply her "free-for-all" with his brother, and the six others that later became apparent (PRIOR to the "open" relationship.) Of course she was like "what's it matter now, we're in an open relationship anyway." hmm. Yeah. Right.....
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