nerdlingZA Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 Hey guys , I'm interested in this young lady at school the pro is that she recently started dating like 2 weeks bad , I'm loveSick with her I think about her everytime , how do I get her ? Please don't tell me "its wrong" etc 1
Artie Lang Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 how do I get her ? if you're asking how to get her, it probably means you have no "game" to begin with.
Author nerdlingZA Posted May 4, 2013 Author Posted May 4, 2013 I'm still in school . Yeah I've no game to begin with , but I was thinking of going to a date with her cos I'm 100% sure her BF doesn't do that
SweetiePie12 Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 Please don't tell me "its wrong" etc Seriously, LOL! You have to trust destiny. Let the chips fall where they may. She's a person, not an object you "take" from the shelf at the grocery store. Give it time, pray for insight, and live your life. What is meant to be will be. 1
SweetiePie12 Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 I'm still in school . Yeah I've no game to begin with Don't say that about yourself! I am sure you have a certain charm that appeals to someone. I'm positive of it! Don't be so hard on yourself, and ignore those who unfortunately will (they don't know no better ) , but I was thinking of going to a date with her cos I'm 100% sure her BF doesn't do that Go for it! Just expect that it's a friend zone date... Unless she tells you differently.
MissBee Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 I'm still in school . Yeah I've no game to begin with , but I was thinking of going to a date with her cos I'm 100% sure her BF doesn't do that She chose her boyfriend. You can't just be like "I'm sure your bf doesn't treat you well, date me." OR actually...you could try telling her that and seeing if she considers it. If she is happy with him, she won't and maybe if not, she will.
ForeverHopeful1 Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 I'm still in school . Yeah I've no game to begin with , but I was thinking of going to a date with her cos I'm 100% sure her BF doesn't do that Its wrong. If she will do it with you, she will do it to you. Any girl who would cheat on her boyfriend with you shouldn't be fully trusted. Don't be silly! She has a boyfriend!!!! Just because you *think* he doesn't take her on date, doesn't mean its you are entitled to.
whichwayisup Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 I'm still in school . Yeah I've no game to begin with , but I was thinking of going to a date with her cos I'm 100% sure her BF doesn't do that How do you know what she does or doesn't do with her boyfriend? Anyway, I'm not going to tell you to "go for it". Imagine she ends up with you and then a few weeks later another guy comes along, does what you're doing and she decides to go with him and dump you. Karma. Think about that.
dreamingoftigers Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 How do you know what she does or doesn't do with her boyfriend? Anyway, I'm not going to tell you to "go for it". Imagine she ends up with you and then a few weeks later another guy comes along, does what you're doing and she decides to go with him and dump you. Karma. Think about that. It sounds like you aren't sure she's dating exclusively (?) Why not ask? 1
Author nerdlingZA Posted May 4, 2013 Author Posted May 4, 2013 Seriously, LOL! You have to trust destiny. Let the chips fall where they may. She's a person, not an object you "take" from the shelf at the grocery store. Give it time, pray for insight, and live your life. What is meant to be will be. The only reason she dated the other dude is because she has been single for 2 years & all her friends have BF + all the pressure from school ( u know how its is when u single in school ) so in other words she was "desperate" 1
TaraMaiden Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 I love the 'taking another man's woman' thread title.... These guys are probably still in their teens..... Kids, really, in other words.... But whatever the age, you can't 'take' what doesn't belong to someone (People aren't possessions) and disrespecting someone else's relationship is playing with fire. If they have problems - then they should sort them out one way or another, not look elsewhere for a bit of spice. And you? If she will cheat FOR you, she will cheat ON you. Remember that, OP..... 1
Author nerdlingZA Posted May 4, 2013 Author Posted May 4, 2013 Guys I can have this lady . . Here's what I'm going to do on monday : I'm going to send my friend to tell that girl "why are you downgrading yourself , d8n that ugly guy" this will make her think her BF is ugly (well basically he is ugly) then I'll start treating her like we d8n .
Toddbt12y1 Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 You've failed already. If you send your friend...that's a loss. Girls don't like that. It is extremely disrespectful to steal another's lover. But with this age...respect is usually an after-though. See guys? This YOLO...do whatever makes you happy at another's misery. Tisktisk. But seriously. You should do it yourself. Girls like confidence. 1
TaraMaiden Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 Guys I can have this lady . . Here's what I'm going to do on monday : I'm going to send my friend to tell that girl "why are you downgrading yourself , d8n that ugly guy" this will make her think her BF is ugly (well basically he is ugly) then I'll start treating her like we d8n . ONE: You're at school. Presumably they taught you English. Proper English. Use it. TWO: Quit 'trolling'. You have completely ignored every single piece of advice, so why even bother posting if you just intend to be a complete jerk about it? 5
whichwayisup Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 Guys I can have this lady . . Here's what I'm going to do on monday : I'm going to send my friend to tell that girl "why are you downgrading yourself , d8n that ugly guy" this will make her think her BF is ugly (well basically he is ugly) then I'll start treating her like we d8n . This silly plan will backfire in your face. Good luck eh, you're gonna need it. 1
Toddbt12y1 Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 ONE: You're at school. Presumably they taught you English. Proper English. Use it. TWO: Quit 'trolling'. You have completely ignored every single piece of advice, so why even bother posting if you just intend to be a complete jerk about it? Strawberry lips! Noo don't cross that bridge! It'll whack you...with a heavy club!
Harradin Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 Talking from someone who did get their girlfriend "taken" from them by a "friend," the amount of pain you cause is really unreal. You don't realise how much pain and suffering this guy will go through if you take his girlfriend. It hurts beyond belief, especially if the guy did nothing wrong like me. I went from Cloud 9 to depression, a nervous breakdown and counselling, I had to take it on my own accord to fight my way back and now I'm getting close to Cloud 9 again, 8 months on since the break up. And if you do take her from this guy, you'll be so insecure and jealous around her because you were capable of doing it therefore someone else can do it to you. When you do that sort of damage on someone, it never works out. In my case, my ex cheated on my "friend" and ran off with one of his friends! You get given the same crap as you give to them, and quite frankly you deserve more pain for inflicting pain onto someone who did nothing wrong. Only dish out what you are prepared to take back. I promise if a man takes her away from you when you've taken her from someone else, you won't be prepared for it, and even if you are you'll be heartbroken like everyone else and wondering why you did what you did, and why you got involved with her in the first place.
whichwayisup Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 Let's also acknowledge here, we're not talking 'man and woman', sounds more like a 14-17 year old boy and girl. BOY AND GIRL. 3
TaraMaiden Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 Strawberry lips! Noo don't cross that bridge! It'll whack you...with a heavy club! Promises, promises.... Let's also acknowledge here, we're not talking 'man and woman', sounds more like a 14-17 year old boy and girl. BOY AND GIRL. Yup. Like I said. Kids.
ComingInHot Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 Have you tried, oh... I don't know... Being honest & sincere w/her? Fresh! Get a pair and man up with her. Tell her how you feel & let her decide* 2
SweetiePie12 Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 Its wrong. If she will do it with you, she will do it to you. Do what exactly? Go to share a meal? Have a friend? What's wrong with any of that? Any girl who would cheat on her boyfriend with you shouldn't be fully trusted. I saw no mention of cheating in his post. So: Don't be silly!
ViresSanctity Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 He just wants to know how he can get the woman! He wants the cheat sheet for all the answers. He doesn't care about the moral implications that older folks complicate affairs with. Geez. This section would be a lot less depressing if I hopped on to this every morning: "How can i steel dat girl's husband? he fiiiine!" "she took my man. where to get gunz?" "questions to OM: do guys like having more than one MW in bed?" "Nervous breakdown from reading these forums" 1
TaraMaiden Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 Well then maybe he should just FB all his mates and ask them. Dumb and Dumber....
dreamingoftigers Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 The only reason she dated the other dude is because she has been single for 2 years & all her friends have BF + all the pressure from school ( u know how its is when u single in school ) so in other words she was "desperate" We know, we know, she's only "staying for the kids" or whatever. So if this is an official, exclusive thing, let it go. If it's a "we went on a date two weeks ago and we might go on another" then there isn't a huge amount of harm in asking her if she might be interested in going on a date with you. Yeesh, high school. One red flag already see is if she did seriously date the other guy out of "desperation" as you term it. Dating someone who gets in involved with others out of a need to "not be single" smacks of insecurity and poor judgment. Not great to get involved with. 1
dreamingoftigers Posted May 5, 2013 Posted May 5, 2013 ONE: You're at school. Presumably they taught you English. Proper English. Use it. TWO: Quit 'trolling'. You have completely ignored every single piece of advice, so why even bother posting if you just intend to be a complete jerk about it? That's funny. I was going to mention his grammar too. Dude, no matter what.....using proper spelling and grammar actually 'does something' for a lot of women. No kidding. Find a "love text" saying: holla, U R hot xxx ..... Is a lot less attractive than: Tracey, I find your presence almost overwhelming. Seeing you walk into a room has such an effect, it is hard to even articulate.....
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