Jadedbyluv Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 For starters, I have been on the fence about the guy I have been seeing. You can see that by my recent posts. But on Wednesday I asked if he wanted to get together tonight. I really wanted to see him to gather how I really felt. But he told me he would let me know later. Well yesterday, he asked if I wanted to do something and I reminded him that I already had plans. I asked if he knew about tonight. He said he wouldn't know until after work since he was visiting a friend who just had surgery with other friends. He didn't want to make plans with me then have to cancel. I understood that. All day today I was thinking about how I felt about him. He texted me and he said he probably couldn't do tonight and we should shoot try for next week. I said that was fine. A little later I talked to him and I told him how I was feeling and told him how I felt. I was letting him know I want more than he was giving me. And all of a sudden, he no longer had plans and asked if I wanted to come over to talk about it. It all just seemed rather odd. I did end up going over to talk and didn't resolve anything.
soccerrprp Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 So, is it over? He could have been jolted by the prospect of losing you, so quickly changed his tune. When you had the talk, what was the outcome? What does he want?
bob the brave Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 Dunno for sure, what happened in the second half? Anyway, it doesn't sound logical that he lied. He was only talking about that specific evening. The next day was fine and next week. If he had another girl he was planning to see that evening, it just seems odd that he could then suddenly blow her off to discuss your feelings. How do you feel about him after the talk?
Archgirl Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 Ummm. He dropped everything to hear you out after you said you wanted more from him!? Catch! And the only thing that you think is that he might have lied?!? If you don't want him I'll take him!
Author Jadedbyluv Posted May 4, 2013 Author Posted May 4, 2013 So, is it over? He could have been jolted by the prospect of losing you, so quickly changed his tune. When you had the talk, what was the outcome? What does he want? We didn't really get any where. I learned last night he's not really good with expressing himself. He seemed kind of detached.
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