emily22202 Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 So i didn't last 24 hours. I sent a text saying i was sad. That was one hour ago. And he didn't respond. Great i totally screwed up didn't i?. Now my last next to him is that i am sad.
tinker683 Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 Well...not nessecarily. You could send him another text apologizing, telling him that you love him, and that you wish him the best. Then THAT would be your last text But...really...don't be so hard on yourself. It's a learning process. You WILL get better
CorridorE Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 I say don't text him back at all. Yeah, now he knows you aren't doing too great, but by sticking to no contact from here on out you will show him that despite feeling low you are still strong enough to get on without him. 1
Author emily22202 Posted May 4, 2013 Author Posted May 4, 2013 First thing i did this morning was look at my phone. I actually thought he was going to respond, but he didn't. Im even more depressed now.
CorridorE Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 First thing i did this morning was look at my phone. I actually thought he was going to respond, but he didn't. Im even more depressed now. I don't know what you're thinking right now, but personally I think the worst thing you could do is text him apologizing for 'bothering him' since he didn't respond. If he broke up with you, you've done nothing wrong and you owe him nothing. Don't apologize for your feelings. Stay strong and don't contact him anymore. 3
Author emily22202 Posted May 4, 2013 Author Posted May 4, 2013 He resonded just now. He said he is sending me an email. I am kinda nervous.
CorridorE Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 Let us know what it says if you're comfortable with it.
Author emily22202 Posted May 5, 2013 Author Posted May 5, 2013 He emailed and said, He loves me so much and really cares about me and wants to see me happy and wants to still be friends. I told him no. I can't be just friends with someone that i love. He said okay that soon my love for him Will eventually fade anyway and that it would be okay. (Its been a week that he broke up with me).
CorridorE Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 He emailed and said, He loves me so much and really cares about me and wants to see me happy and wants to still be friends. I told him no. I can't be just friends with someone that i love. He said okay that soon my love for him Will eventually fade anyway and that it would be okay. (Its been a week that he broke up with me). Good for you! Trying to stay friends with an ex never works, expecially when it's someone you still love becsuse it only breaks you down further. He should not have said he loves you. If he did, he would be trying to work things out. It seems like you are being strong about this, just don't let yourself view that as a false hope. Stay strong and do your best to not reply any further. Good luck
Ladyrascalz Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 Seems like you've already gotten a few replies but just stick with the no contact rule. The hardest decision is making up your mind not to contact this person, everyday you succeed you'll grow stronger from it and your break up will get easier. Excellent job on refusing to be friends, it's very hard especially in the beginning when you're attempting to get over someone to also be friends with them. The more you speak and communicate will them, the more counterproductive your break up will actually be. So stay strong, and give yourself a chance to find an amazing guy!
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