joel Posted September 23, 2004 Posted September 23, 2004 i am totally sure she is gossiping about the time i asked her out for drinks. man i wish i didn;t say lets go out for drinks- she could have interpret it as going for alcohlic drinks and later getting bed time-which i was not even thinking of-just dating casually and maybe being friends. how can i tell her and what do i say to her that the asking for drinks part was not what i was thinking about. i was just so nervous right. and askin for coffee might sound too cheap and bubble tea-well hey lets go for bubble tea doesn;t sound good, so i said lets go for drinks. shouldn't have done the lets go for drinks she is gossiping about me-to classmates as i can read facial and body language and also can read her and the classmates lips b/c i do look at her-glances from a distance. slowly and day by day i am gettin over her- i am talking to this other girl in my other class-and she seems pretty nice-not attracted to her-but i would love to have a female freind- and who nows she might have a goodlooking freind. anyways her personality so far is nice which i like maybe i will get over the looks part as i am a open minded individual.
Jilly10340 Posted September 23, 2004 Posted September 23, 2004 I kind of like a guy and would like to ask him out for "drinks" but this is the exact reason that I don't. I have to see him everyday so it would be humiliating if he said no. Plus, wonder if he tells everyone he works with. Oh, the shame. I feel for you man...
Author joel Posted September 23, 2004 Author Posted September 23, 2004 well ur a gal so its ok to ask for drinks. just ask him for coffee -freind kind of thing. Originally posted by Jilly10340 I kind of like a guy and would like to ask him out for "drinks" but this is the exact reason that I don't. I have to see him everyday so it would be humiliating if he said no. Plus, wonder if he tells everyone he works with. Oh, the shame. I feel for you man...
Jilly10340 Posted September 23, 2004 Posted September 23, 2004 Well, i don't think the gender makes a difference. Whether your a guy or a girl it's still embarassing to be turned down. I'm afraid he'll laugh at me.
Author joel Posted September 23, 2004 Author Posted September 23, 2004 well all i now is if a gal asked me out i be flattered and happy, i wouldn't laugh at her. if that ur pic- don;t u have a lot of guys hittin on u- i mean don;t u already have a bf. reason i don;t have a gf - is i am shy and quite- changin now and i'm 23 lol yea late bloomer QUOTE]Originally posted by Jilly10340 Well, i don't think the gender makes a difference. Whether your a guy or a girl it's still embarassing to be turned down. I'm afraid he'll laugh at me.
Jilly10340 Posted September 23, 2004 Posted September 23, 2004 Yeah, that's my picture but I don't have guys beating my door down I actually just dumped my boyfriend last night. We'd only been dating for about a month and I just got tired of his crap. I think I deserved better Don't feel bad, I'm 22 and I'm really shy also. Especially when it comes to guys I think are cute.
Author joel Posted September 24, 2004 Author Posted September 24, 2004 yea but i'm sure if u go to the clubs ur must have on average like what 7 guys hittin on u -if not what the number of guys hittin on u when u go to the clubs lets say on one night. that what i also wonder for decent to good looking girls is how many guys do they get hit on if they go out to the clubs or whatever when they go out how guys hit on em in a month. me as a guy i don;t think iever had a girl hit on me-but i never go to the clubs or even go out that much which i should do. Originally posted by Jilly10340 Yeah, that's my picture but I don't have guys beating my door down I actually just dumped my boyfriend last night. We'd only been dating for about a month and I just got tired of his crap. I think I deserved better Don't feel bad, I'm 22 and I'm really shy also. Especially when it comes to guys I think are cute.
Jilly10340 Posted September 24, 2004 Posted September 24, 2004 Well, considering that I don't go to clubs I can't answer your question. I hate them. They're too loud and you can't talk to anyone. I've never kept a running count on how many guys hit on me but it's nothing extraoridinary. I don't really go out as much as I should either in a situation where guys would hit on me.
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