Globrazil Posted September 23, 2004 Posted September 23, 2004 posted August 15, 2004 06:59 AM -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Dear Friends 8 years ago I started dating a girl married to a friend of mine. One month into the relationship I even paid for her to divorce the guy... Now 8 years lady she is cheating on me and I love to have her back in my life... I made a big mistake then and I would like to know if is it possible for me to save my relationship? We did have a lot of problems over the years,but I never thought that she could leave me someday. We are not married yet..We have been living together for the last 8 years. She is so beautiful, but she was not mine at that time..And God knows all the things!Please any advise?
Merin Posted September 23, 2004 Posted September 23, 2004 Originally posted by Globrazil posted August 15, 2004 06:59 AM -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Dear Friends 8 years ago I started dating a girl married to a friend of mine. One month into the relationship I even paid for her to divorce the guy... Now 8 years lady she is cheating on me and I love to have her back in my life... I made a big mistake then and I would like to know if is it possible for me to save my relationship? We did have a lot of problems over the years,but I never thought that she could leave me someday. We are not married yet..We have been living together for the last 8 years. She is so beautiful, but she was not mine at that time..And God knows all the things!Please any advise? Well to begin with she ISN'T YOURS NOW... This girl obviously has problems with those "little" things that most of us find so important... like fidelity, honesty, integrity.... Does it really matter that she is so "Beautiful"? She is showing herself to be very ugly... see what i'm saying? I think in some ways, you are getting Karma coming back around to you and it's whipping your a**.... she was married 8 years ago to YOUR FRIEND... Hmmm how many nights do you think he sat up praying to God that in the end YOU get what you have coming to you for messing around with HIS WIFE? While I understand that it was SHE who was married to him, were you not suppose to be HIS friend? See friends don't let friends drive drunk, friends don't let friends wear bad outfits, friends tell friends if they have something stuck in thier teeth or hanging out of their nose... AND Friends DON'T mess around with other FRIENDS mates. So what to do now... decide if her exterior beauty is making up for the ugly person she is on the inside and proceed accordingly.
ltomlinson81 Posted September 23, 2004 Posted September 23, 2004 Someone who will carry on an affair with you while she is married is not someone you should be with. She will just do the same to you.
Scott S Posted September 23, 2004 Posted September 23, 2004 Originally posted by Globrazil 8 years ago I started dating a girl married to a friend of mine. One month into the relationship I even paid for her to divorce the guy... Now 8 years lady she is cheating on me and I love to have her back in my life... I made a big mistake then and I would like to know if is it possible for me to save my relationship? We did have a lot of problems over the years,but I never thought that she could leave me someday. This is a risk inherent to extra-marital affairs. She has shown that her scruples can be overcome, that marital vows are meaningless to her, & that she can be unfaithful. It should therefore come as no surprise when she is again unfaithful. She was before, she can be again. You'll indulge me if I appear unsympathetic. I was a cuckholded husband, on the other side of a situation identical to yours. So in my opinion you are reaping the wages of your actions.
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