jmwinters Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 This is always happen to me and I always run out of topics to talk about in the 2nd or 3rd date. Girls normally loose interest in me after that. I am quite good looking, stylish and fit, but I guess the outlook is not that important to girls. Communication is the king, but I just really have hard time coming up with new topics, so usually it is alot of quiet time during our date. What are the topics that most interest in you ladies? Thank you
CarrieT Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 Books read Art exhibits seen Concerts heard History studied Past experiences Places traveled 1
tricolors Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 You really shouldn't be running out of topics to discuss. If you have a lot of things in common it should be completely natural and organic to keep discussion flowing. You shouldn't even have to ask things to discuss...it's not really an answer anyone can give you. What you discuss should be customized to the experiences of you and your date. 3
soccerrprp Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 Not a lady, but the topic itself isn't as important as the flow and transition, the give and take, the interaction. If all is going well and you two are complementing each other, regardless of the topic, there should be a near effortless rhythm and flow to the conversation. Maybe you're trying too hard!? It does help to start with something you two have in common. 1
TaraMaiden Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 ....Yes, I'd go with those.... Plus, personal goals, family life, hobbies currently practised, and definitely avoid How quickly could we have sex? Any sexual inhibitions? your place or mine? How much do you earn? What car do you drive? Do you drink/take drugs?
KathyM Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 If I were dating, I would like to discuss the man I'm dating, his interests, his hobbies, his job, his perspective about life and various topics. It's mainly a period of getting to know the person, so I would want to discuss my dating partner's life and perspective. General topics I like to discuss are current events/news, politics, religion, sports, different cultures, philosophy, psychology, relationships in general, movies or T.V. shows, the economy, activities. Just to name a few.
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