arashk12 Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 please listen to my story she is living in o long distance place and we usually meet once a month.but we were always in contact and liked each other until i got sick. it was a mental sickness...it caused me to doubt to my girlfriend with no reason and this hurt us both.but i couldn`t control it because i was madly sick. she tried to help.but i didn`t behave good with her and it made her so sad.i was her first boyfriend. and with no reason i doubted her. my sickness got worst.and i cloudn`t pay much attention to her.and it made her more and more cold. although i was going to doctor but it took time for me to heal.and i was cured finally.but i lost my girlfriend`s warm feeling toward me. at first when i asked do u love me? she answered : i don`t know.and two month later she said i don`t love you anymore and i am tired.i asked her to try make things good and i am healthy now.she said ok.but nothing changed.and one day she just gone forever.and texts me that don`t call me again please. i know many of you will say she is with someone else. but i can surely say she`s not. it`s been a year now. and i missed her. i read two many books about get ur ex back. but my girl is a very very tough one.it doesn`t work. she chat on facebook but she is very serious and she respects me but behave like we are strangers to each other.and she said sometimes she missed me but doesn`t wanna see me and have me again.never. even when she came to my town for a surgery i went to see her after a year but she told her sister to ask me go away..and her sister came to me and said she is full of stress and doesn`t wanna see u.but i could finaly see her for only two minutes. this is a very tough one guys...but i still belive i can get her back, i worked alot on myself.she likes my pics and some statuses on facebook. but whenever i ask her to talk and call she resists.and says i dont wanna have phone call with you.just chat. please help me what to do? i am trying to underestand her and act right but sometimes i loose my way and i don`t know what to do. i decided to go to couple therapy but it is damn expensive and i got no money.
TaraMaiden Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 (edited) I hate to be the one to dampen your optimism, but I am completely convinced she will never come back. Your 'mental sickness' sounds like acute depression. Something you managed to deal with, but you weren't ill, you were simply on a downer - and you probably treated her quite badly, and she's not happy to risk that again. at first when i asked do u love me? she answered : i don`t know.and two month later she said i don`t love you anymore and i am tired. i asked her to try make things good and i am healthy now.she said ok.but nothing changed.and one day she just gone forever.and texts me that don`t call me again please. i know many of you will say she is with someone else. but i can surely say she`s not. it`s been a year now. and i missed her. i read two many books about get ur ex back. but my girl is a very very tough one.it doesn`t work. she chat on facebook but she is very serious and she respects me but behave like we are strangers to each other.and she said sometimes she missed me but doesn`t wanna see me and have me again.never. even when she came to my town for a surgery i went to see her after a year but she told her sister to ask me go away..and her sister came to me and said she is full of stress and doesn`t wanna see u.but i could finaly see her for only two minutes. this is a very tough one guys...but i still belive i can get her back, i worked alot on myself.she likes my pics and some statuses on facebook. but whenever i ask her to talk and call she resists.and says i dont wanna have phone call with you.just chat. Sorry, but she has told you in no uncertain terms that it's over - and she HAS told you - so you must accept it. If there is one thing a woman (who has made up her mind) hates, more than anything, it's a persistent ex- who she no longer loves, trying to change it. It doesn't work, it won't work, and she is very tough - and I promise you - there is NO Hope. Edited May 3, 2013 by TaraMaiden 1
steveT95 Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 The sooner you accept the truth the sooner you can start to heal and move on. Listen to Taramaiden.
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