jovan Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 So its more then 4 months since she dumped my ass out of nowhere. I called her after the BU several time's and tried to work things out. So i stopped trying. But after 2 months of no contact she somehow managed to reach me. We talked about us and **** like that. She said that she knows what she lost, and that this is all hard for her. I asked her if there was even 1 single moment after the BU that i had chance to save our relationship, and she said no, not even a second... So yeah, I told her it suck, she said she loves me and that she only wanted to hear me and see how I was. Now can this be really a reason for her calling me, or is there something behind it? I told her I was in 3 months relationship and that this is awkward for me, and how it would be best if she doesn't call me anymore. Was that a right thing to do here? Or should go out with a bang and ask her to work things out?
thefooloftheyear Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 So its more then 4 months since she dumped my ass out of nowhere. I called her after the BU several time's and tried to work things out. So i stopped trying. But after 2 months of no contact she somehow managed to reach me. We talked about us and **** like that. She said that she knows what she lost, and that this is all hard for her. I asked her if there was even 1 single moment after the BU that i had chance to save our relationship, and she said no, not even a second... So yeah, I told her it suck, she said she loves me and that she only wanted to hear me and see how I was. Now can this be really a reason for her calling me, or is there something behind it? I told her I was in 3 months relationship and that this is awkward for me, and how it would be best if she doesn't call me anymore. Was that a right thing to do here? Or should go out with a bang and ask her to work things out? Its hard to believe that someone who doesnt want you would actually go through the trouble to see "how you are doing"...Look at all the people that post on here about how their exes do the same thing. Mine did too. Several times, no less. Why do they do it? Who the hell knows. Look at what I bolded. If that doesnt speak volumes then I dont know what will. Id let it go...water under the bridge. TFY
Chi townD Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 Dude, she TOLD you that you didn't have one chance to get her back and not even a second chance. She just told you she just wanted to hear your voice. Does that sound like a person that's dying to get back with you? She was just looking for her "Jovan fix" and she got it. Nothing more.
Author jovan Posted May 3, 2013 Author Posted May 3, 2013 y I was thinking the same thing. ty guys/garls for the support, it means a lot
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