Hope737 Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 (edited) I've been NC 3 weeks today. I've posted quite a few times on here about my story and you guys have been an awesome help. I'll just recap anyway. Known her for 9 years, was in a relationship for about 4 of those years. Now that we're over (she cheated) I told her we can no longer remain friends as its just too painful to watch her with other guys. I can't put myself through that again. She can't understand this and called my stupid for wanting to go NC. Anyway, I think I already know that answer to my question but a few opinions would be great. Basically, she still owes me money for something I helped her out with when we were in a relationship. At the time she was addiment that she wanted to pay me back. She's paid half of it to me but she still owes me £200. This isn't a LOT of money but it's still a substantial amount. I think I should just let it go as it'd mean making contact with her again. On the other hand there's the principles of just letting someone get away with my own money that I leant to her. What do you think? Let it go? Edited May 3, 2013 by Hope737
Amelie1980 Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 Have you asked her for the money back already? If so I would issue a small claim at court. She can talk ro them instead.
Author Hope737 Posted May 3, 2013 Author Posted May 3, 2013 The last time I asked her about it was just before we went NC. She seemed willing to pay it as soon as she could afford it. It's not as if she's done anything wrong. I was just wondering whether to let it go or not as it would now compromise no contact. It's not as if it's a huuuuuge amount of money anyway.
thefooloftheyear Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 Yep.... Let it go. You are probably only seeing it as a loan because the relationship is over. TFY
crederer Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 Let it go. My ex and I broke up and we were in a lease that was in my name. I moved out and the deal was she'd still pay her half, and I would pay mine for the remaining 2 months. Well since it was in my name, she decided not to pay any of it and I had to pay the last couple months completely on my own. It amounted to about $1000. She was living there, and I was in my Dad's basement at the time. I asked her to pay once and she went off into a big tangent about how big of an ass I am (I left cause she cheated). I think it was her way of keeping in contact or some sick twisted sort of thing so I said I'd gladly pay the $1000 if it meant I'd never have to deal with her again. 1
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