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I want to break no contact but its too risky


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Hey guys.

I haven't posted on here in a while.

Things have gotten better, but not much. It's been about 3 and a half months since the break up. Even though that isn't really that long, it feels like forever.

 

I haven't talked to him in about a month and a half..

I've been doing other things trying to occupy my mind as hanging out with friends, focusing on school, etc.

 

I'm just having a hard time with accepting that things are over.

I want to contact him and I still want to be with him. But the reality of that, is that its not going to happen.

 

I'm pretty convinced that he is about to be with someone else because of what I've heard from people and seen on the internet.

 

Moving on just scares me, because I don't want to leave all this left behind like it was nothing..

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You deserve your own happiness. What will bring you happiness?

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It wasn't nothing, although NC makes it seem that way. It is okay to remember it as something, like high school or college, or your first job, i.e. things that were great (theoretically) but are now over. Grieve the loss, certainly, and remember the good things, all the while continuing your strategies for going on with your life.

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