syw0806 Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 I've been with him for few months, he never says how much he likes me... he'd text that he likes me, cares me, misses me, sometimes he texts love (it's not that he calls me love, but I think he tries to say he loves me) those texts barely happens though.. when I see him in person, and only when we get intimate, he'd ask how much I missed him, how much I like him, how much I love (he never says 'how much you love me'. he always says 'how much you love'...lol and he's not talking about how much I love anyTHING. he means either 'him' or 'the time being with him' I guess). If I ask him 'do you like me' 'will you miss me', then he sometimes goes 'yeayea', sometimes ignores or says 'stop that' I can feel he cares me, but I just don't understand why is it so hard for him to just express how much he cares... he's a shy type guy so maybe it has to do with that too? today before I left his place, I kept kissing him cheeks lips asking he's going to miss me, and he's like 'now I don't need to miss you (bc he already spent time w me)' then finally he says 'miss you miss u' after I was being clingy lol don't mistake here I'm not clingy at all..lol this was only one time I was being clingy in teasing way. so I was wondering is this only my guy or many guys are like this? is he just not that interested?
snowflakes88 Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 If this is the same guy who is still on the dating website and always putting you down, I'm not sure why you're wasting your time. No surprise that he isn't doing/saying sweet things... doesn't sound like he's all that into you, from everything you've posted about him.
phineas Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 If this is the same guy who is still on the dating website and always putting you down, I'm not sure why you're wasting your time. No surprise that he isn't doing/saying sweet things... doesn't sound like he's all that into you, from everything you've posted about him. Considering how much she is into him i'm willing to bet she wouldn't go for a guy who did do all the things she wants this guy to do because it would turn her off.
soccerrprp Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 It's your guy. I'm not like that and I would imagine that most men are not that evasive about expressing their feelings. It doesn't feel right to me. He either has a genuine issue with expressing himself which would be frustrating to me, or he's only doing enough to keep you interested...
monkey00 Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 I don't think it's a good sign if it's hardly. I'm not the most expressive guy, but I do tell my girl the l word a few times each week and if I missed her once in awhile. But I'd say in most cases guys are just naturally not that much in touch with their feelings/emotions as women are. If he's treating you well is it worth the worry? Is this something you can talk to him about on improving?
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