HuffmanMontana Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 (edited) During our relationship my ex didn't want anything to do with my friends. One in particular because she watched me enter my passcode one day unbeknownst to me and got into my phone one night. She was upset that I had concerns with the relationship. In all honesty, if I wasn't thinking about things then I feel as though I'm not giving the relationship the attention it deserves. I'm pretty sure she was never able to get over this and felt as though I betrayed her by talking about us. She never stopped using it against me. Anyway, now that we are broken up, she's befriended this girlfriend of mine and at times will blow her up messaging her as if they are best friends but during our relationship I couldn't get her to meet or hangout with this friend. IDK, I guess I think it's kind of weird. I don't go messaging my exes friends that prior to the breakup I had zero friendship with. Edited May 3, 2013 by HuffmanMontana
BustedUpInside Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 That is really weird. Well, it's weird to you, buy my guess is that she has a very specific plan. For it to be effective, she is probably using your poor friend in a couple of different ways. One, she gets to check up on you under the guise of just chatting. Two, she gets to tell your friend how great she is doing and knows that your friend will probably tell you. That way she can continue to feel like she is "winning" the breakup. You can count yourself lucky in some ways though. When my ex and I broke up we had a group of friends that we had made together as a couple. While, I was the one they liked more I moved away and so they had to settle for him and they are always telling me that they wish that I was the one that could have stayed.
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