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theres a guy thats a year younger than me but i really like him. He's in two of my classes: geometry and spanish. He never talked to me AT ALL but i used to be kinda quiet and never knew what to say to people, anyway, now im really outgoing and can talk to almost anyone. In my geometry class, he sometimes calls my name over and over again until I look up and he smiles and waves and i smile and wave back. He always talks to a girl thats in his grade who sits next to him and it looks like they are flirting but i cant really tell because i sit far from them.

 

In spanish class, one day he asked me if i like him (which of course i do) but i said no because i was afraid if he didnt like me back or was playing a trick on me for some reason. I also didnt know which like he meant: the like as a friend or like as more than friends. After i said no he looked kinda sad and asked why. i didnt know if he was pretending to be sad or if he really was. He asked me if i ever had sex or at least i thought thats what he meant cuz he did a bunch of hand and and body motions. Then he said that another guy thought that i liked him so thats why he asked. Then he said that a guy that sits behind him wanted to do me or whatever (he used hand motions). The guy denied it and told him to stop saying that. Then the guy i like asked me who i like better: the guy who sits behind him or the guy that thought i liked him. I said neither because they werent my type but he keeps asking me and trying to set me up with one if them i guess. The bell rang and he told me that we would continue the discussion next class and winked at me.

 

The next class he asked me who i wanna date out of everyone in the class. I told him that i didnt know. He started naming people but i said no to all of them. Also when we got into groups, he wiggled his tongue at me (not just sticking it out) so i dont know what he was doing there.

 

I'm just really confused and dont know what to make of all this. He never talks to me in the hall or even looks at me. Does he like me? What should i say to him next time i see him? I wanna say something kinda flirty but i dont really wanna make a move unless he likes me. By the way, im in high school so thats why all this sounds immature and i also never dated anyone before so i dont even know where to start. Please help!

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Does he like me?

 

Maybe.

 

What should i say to him next time i see him?

 

"Why don't you ever sit next to me in class?"

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Wow wait.

 

How old are you? I totally do not wanna give advice that could lead a kid into sex.

 

He does like you. To cover for you saying "no" to liking him. He used the other guys.

 

You could ask him to sit by you. But if he's making constant sexual signs to you...you know what he wants. I frankly can tell you're a virgin. Be careful with that.

 

As you should get a Guy who likes you. Not your body.

 

Anyhoo. It seems as though he likes you. Follow the above posters advice.

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Just relax.

 

Should have said "I like you, but I'm not IN like with you".

 

For some reason your post reminded me of junior high where people made such comments.

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Wow wait.

 

How old are you? I totally do not wanna give advice that could lead a kid into sex.

 

He does like you. To cover for you saying "no" to liking him. He used the other guys.

 

You could ask him to sit by you. But if he's making constant sexual signs to you...you know what he wants. I frankly can tell you're a virgin. Be careful with that.

 

As you should get a Guy who likes you. Not your body.

 

Anyhoo. It seems as though he likes you. Follow the above posters advice.

 

I'm 15, almost 16. and dont worry about leading me into sex cuz that is not gonna happen.

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Maybe.

 

 

 

"Why don't you ever sit next to me in class?"

 

actually we have assigned seats in both of the classes we have together but he sits next to me in spanish. I have spanish tomorrow so I'm kinda nervous about talking to him. I kinda wanna compliment him...like tell him his eyes are pretty cuz they are like a blue-green color but would that be too weird?

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Don't even say pretty or cute to a guy. Most guys that I know hate that. You can smile, lean towards him a little bit when talking to him. And if you want to go further you can play with your hair while you talk to him. These are body language signs to tell him that you like him.

 

The rest should be up to him.

This, especially the bolded part. If he doesn't make any subsequent moves, as a woman in the 21st century, you are completely screwed since men must make the first moves. If he does not make any move, this is a sure sign that he is not interested in you.

 

Now leave the rest up to him as you have done what you could. :)

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I'm 15, almost 16. and dont worry about leading me into sex cuz that is not gonna happen.

 

 

Good, I am just making sure. I hope it works out for you :D the other posters are right on.

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he definitely seems into you :D

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Not always some guys are extremely shy. I used to be that guy lol

 

actually the guy i like is really outgoing and popular. if it was a shy guy i would have no problem talking to him.

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he wasnt at school on friday so i was thinking i could ask if he wanted to see my notes as a conversation starter and then go from there. is that good?

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Wow wait.How old are you? I totally do not wanna give advice that could lead a kid into sex.

 

 

With a screen name like "Sarah15", ummmm i bet shes 15

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i talked to HIM today. i just asked basic questions like what did you get on your geometry test. he just gave a straight answer and didnt really flow with the conversation. did i do something wrong? he also asked me if i smoke weed sooo.....maybe he does that i dont know...

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