whisperoftheheart Posted May 2, 2013 Posted May 2, 2013 Hey. Ive posted before re:situation. Ex dumped me two months ago after being together 2.5 years. Main reason - "he couldnt do I anymore" no cheating etc. On either side. We hadnt spoke properly or seen each other since. I reached out the other day after having a sort out and collected his stuff together. I text about it and we have since exchanged basic stuff regarding when to do it.. Looks like its happening tomorrow. Im worried about how it will be (awkward I assume) and if its worth trying to talk or even suggest reconciliation further down the line. Yes I am the dumpee and shouldn't dream of it etc. etc. But im worried about how I seem. I feel ok and pretty confident im moving forward with my life. Im just concerned that emotions may take over :S Am I over thinking this?
mtnbiker3000 Posted May 2, 2013 Posted May 2, 2013 Hey. Ive posted before re:situation. Ex dumped me two months ago after being together 2.5 years. Main reason - "he couldnt do I anymore" no cheating etc. On either side. We hadnt spoke properly or seen each other since. I reached out the other day after having a sort out and collected his stuff together. I text about it and we have since exchanged basic stuff regarding when to do it.. Looks like its happening tomorrow. Im worried about how it will be (awkward I assume) and if its worth trying to talk or even suggest reconciliation further down the line. Yes I am the dumpee and shouldn't dream of it etc. etc. But im worried about how I seem. I feel ok and pretty confident im moving forward with my life. Im just concerned that emotions may take over :S Am I over thinking this? Is there anyway you can get a third party to do it for you? Or leave these things somewhere? Anything to where you don't have be face to face? I feel your pain as I went through something similar... The good news is after this, there will be nothing hanging over you. 100% free to move on
BrokenHeartedSavior Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 Agreed, a third party would be best- if thats not possible I would simply drop the items off without contact. It'll be MUCH easier for you. Thats what I did, and I was living with her at the time, i literally had to move eight years of my life out of that house. I did it whike she was at work- haven't physically seen her in what will be a year at the end of May.
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