SalientPoint Posted May 2, 2013 Posted May 2, 2013 So I had felt slightly better as of late, there wasn't any random crying in public anymore, got it down to about a few tears once a day, was feeling like maybe there was hope after all, and then the last few days have been nothing but setbacks. Last night I dreamt about her and living in the city I had planned to move to to be with her, and woke up feeling pretty crappy and like it has put my whole day in a funk. I want to go for a bike ride but it's like 95* out so that will probably have to wait...
shadow15 Posted May 2, 2013 Posted May 2, 2013 Some people say we dream of ex's because it says that person is thinking about us; however, i don't believe that, i read somewhere its our way of our mind subconsciously letting go of those memories and ideas, i personally like that idea better. Either way, we don't know why we dream of ex's, but at the end of the day its just a dream and doesn't have any meaningful value. Go for that bike ride, ride your heart out, let the feelings come out and your mind wonder while riding and don't keep it in. Sometimes being by ourselves is what exactly our mind needs to be happy and content again. Remember though stay hydrated, maybe go riding when the sun sets or later tonight. Even though i was not thinking about my ex, but mainly just cause i wanna stay healthy, i went and ran last night for from 11pm to 12pm, but during that time she crossed my mind, and being alone running my butt off it helped me get her off my mind and realize I'm my own best friend now, my number fan, and that i need to just focus on me. 1
316 Posted May 2, 2013 Posted May 2, 2013 People try to put too much meaning into dreams when they really don't mean a lot at all. People dream about their exes because they are on their minds a lot after a break up... Nothing more nothing less.
EmptyWalls Posted May 2, 2013 Posted May 2, 2013 Dreams are killer setbacks, I used to hate waking and remembering a dream about her. Though maybe the event or actions that took place in there were never real the memories and feelings were. I get up, get a nice hot shower, brushy my teeth, eat a bowl of cocoa puffs and kick my self out of the house. Work was always a drag and at least your weather was nice. My days were always cloudy for some reason. Maybe they just seemed that way. Stupid dreams.... maybe that's why I hardly sleep. Hang in there bro! Stay strong.
IS IT Better late Posted May 2, 2013 Posted May 2, 2013 Dreams are killer! They feel so real and when you wake up to the realty of not having her it destroys me. We suffer when our realty is not what we want it to be. I have no great wisdom about this but It's really sad that we dream about something we had in reality. Life can be very cruel at times. Hang in there, I hear it gets better over time. 1
Author SalientPoint Posted May 2, 2013 Author Posted May 2, 2013 People try to put too much meaning into dreams when they really don't mean a lot at all. People dream about their exes because they are on their minds a lot after a break up... Nothing more nothing less. Yeah, I don't think it meant anything other than my subconcious knowing that I think about her entirely too much. It's just a crap way to wake up, and as I've been having setbacks it didn't exactly help. However, I'll just have to suck it up.
mtnbiker3000 Posted May 2, 2013 Posted May 2, 2013 Yeah, I don't think it meant anything other than my subconcious knowing that I think about her entirely too much. It's just a crap way to wake up, and as I've been having setbacks it didn't exactly help. However, I'll just have to suck it up. Yeah, I think it's only natural that the subconscious mind is dealing with the same things as the conscious mind. Think about them while awake. Dream about them while asleep. Happens to me too Hope you are doing well SP!!!
crederer Posted May 2, 2013 Posted May 2, 2013 I've had a few of these in the 2 months we've been broken up. It feels so real and I'm so happy in the dream then you wake up and realize, wow. I find mornings are always the hardest for me for some reason. Don't know why. I also find myself waking up in the middle of the night, and literally I'm thinking of her the moment my eyes open. Like before I can even grasp the fact that I'm awake. But as the day goes on I feel better. 1
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