lovekoto Posted May 2, 2013 Posted May 2, 2013 Hi, I'm new in this site and would like to get help about my relationship that just suddenly ended last Friday . I'm a university student who is currently living with my ex-bf atm and I'm just really confuse and devastated to what just happened. My situation is that on the last days of our winter quarter, my boyfriend and I went to an argument (the thing is that after finals, we usually go back to our home in our city to take our break. on that quarter he finished his final early so I asked if he could stay just a night with me before he heads back in his hometown. He refused to stay and that's how we got into an argument) he said that he cannot be in a relationship anymore and that we are done. During our spring break I texted him because I miss him so much and he told me that he misses me too. When we got back from our vacation, I apologized to him to what I have done and promised him that I would be better and that we should take it slow and give it another shot. Forabout 4 weeks, I thought that i have been doing good in fact I thought it was all perfect because we didnt argue at all, we told each other how much we love one another and we kissed/hug and all that. Last week on Tuesday I asked him what should we do on Friday so that we can both do something fun and he said will just plan it out on Thursday. And Friday came and we still have decided on what to do. On that Friday night, he dropped the bomb and broke up with me saying that he doesn't feel that same way towards me anymore. I broke up with tears and was really devastated. I told him what did I do wrong again that he's breaking up with me and he told me that "nothing you didn't do anything wrong" he said that he just doesn't feel the same way anymore. I find this really confusing and heartcrashing since I thought everything was going great and perfect. I asked him what did I do to him to him feel that way and he said nothing he just don't love me anymore. I just feel really depressed right now since I love him with all my heart and I know that he's the one for me. He is the first person I really fell in love with and I'm also his first. I want him back so badly right now and everyday is just getting harder and harder adding the fact that we live with each other. I know that I can't get him back right now and that time can only heal this. I just don't know what to do anymore and what was he thinking why he broke up with me. Hopefully you can help with some advices. I'm just so confuse.
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