Jadedbyluv Posted May 2, 2013 Posted May 2, 2013 I've been seeing this guy for 3 months. It's pretty clear we want different things. We do get along really well and have a lot of fun together but that's not what I want. I want more than that. He just divorced last year and is hesitant to get too involved so I know he is looking to test the waters again so to speak. I haven't really dated anybody in over two years after trying to get over an abusive relationship, and I'm at the point where I know that I'm finally ready for something more. Even though I realize that, dating scares me. I still have my guard up. I'm not expecting anything from this guy. I know it's not going anywhere. I don't know if I should continue to see him and have fun. Or if I am completely selling myself short. I'm a bit conflicted because I do enjoy his company but I know I deserve someone who wants more than what we have. What do I do?
Treasa Posted May 2, 2013 Posted May 2, 2013 If you're feeling conflicted this early, you should get out.
soccerrprp Posted May 2, 2013 Posted May 2, 2013 I believe you've answered your own questions. You deserve more, you want more, you think that this guy wants to try out the waters (ie. no commitment on his part)... if you ride on b/c you like his company and time passes and you become EVEN MORE EMOTIONALLY invested, it will be much more difficult. I say, if you are certain of all your feelings, observations, etc. that you get out. 1
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