2trill Posted May 2, 2013 Posted May 2, 2013 July 2012 my fiance of 5 years dumped me. I dumped her a few years back and we got back together but she said she was tired of me and i needed to change. It was a crusher. Even I was in terrible pain we maintained contact even hung out a few times until a month after the breakup in July I seen her at a bar and she was acting all slutty and **** and wee had a huge fight that lasted for days unti she changed her number. After that we had nc for a month or so. I saw her at the bar a different one and we just hit it off i missed her and i could tell she missed me. Later that night i went to jail she called me crying saying she still loved me. So we started talking again even hanging out. We said we would be friends but i wanted more. In an attempt to move on i started dating I been with my new gf for 6 months now. Me and the ex have mainrained contact to this day. I knew she had moved on and started seeing some and she knew I did too. We sometimes have petty argument but a for a month or so she been emotional and kinda mad that I introduced new gf to my family. I found out a few weeks ago she was pregnant i didn't wanna believe it so i finally got enough courage to ask her she confirmed she was 7 months pregnant with her rebounds baby. My heart dropped I'm devasted its like I'm in the loop all over again
will1988 Posted May 2, 2013 Posted May 2, 2013 you know, she is your ex... she has no right to be mad at your current relationship, and you have no reason to take her bs drama. I would say cut the strings and move on. Then again, I'm the burn bridges, or rather blow them to kingdom come, kind of guy, during a break up. You need to move on, and forget about her and all the pain she caused. 3
Author 2trill Posted May 3, 2013 Author Posted May 3, 2013 I have tried many times but it's like we always gravitate back to contact again. We have been texting recently and she says she still loves me. I asked her why after her being pregnant so long does she even talk to me. She says she still cares I toldd her I would always be her friend but thethought of her having another man son is killing me. Idk if I should turn my back on her or be the friend she has always been to me
BrokenHeartedSavior Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 Turn your back, and stay that way. She's someone elses problem now.
brokenhearted3 Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 I have tried many times but it's like we always gravitate back to contact again. We have been texting recently and she says she still loves me. I asked her why after her being pregnant so long does she even talk to me. She says she still cares I toldd her I would always be her friend but thethought of her having another man son is killing me. Idk if I should turn my back on her or be the friend she has always been to me i'm going through the same thing you are. i need help on this so bad. hope you have some thoughts. i dont know how to pm (private message) on here
Author 2trill Posted May 3, 2013 Author Posted May 3, 2013 Yeah its tough because when I have problems I vent to her. Now my current gf is demanding that I force her out of my life. She doesnt even want us to be friends so I don't know what to do. It's making me recent my current gf. Man iek
Author 2trill Posted May 3, 2013 Author Posted May 3, 2013 i'm going through the same thing you are. i need help on this so bad. hope you have some thoughts. i dont know how to pm (private message) on here You know man after some deep thinking I am gonna cut her lose. This **** is deep when I analyze the past year and knowing what i know now. I'm a break it down this might be long lol. . Looking back at how we ended and where she is now im actually the one laughing last. . Not that i want revenge but I told her that this woukd happen. During our 5 yrs she got to the point were she wanted more. Last summer I had graduated college and she was just starting college. Now that im look back and knowing how sneaky she was I know for a fact she planned to dump me before she started school.she came up with a perfect plan for a life without me im pretty sure with the aid of some friends. Now that I remember she was gonna leave while I was at work one day but I got it outta her a few days before and the first thing she did was call her friend after she told me. She thought she was gonna go live the single life party it up a yr before she moved away for school. She confirmed that but she didnt plan on getting preggo within 3 months ha ha. I look at it as perfect example of karma she dumps me to chase a fantasy and now she 7 months pregnant stuck in her grandpa basement with a baby daddy who cheated on her and now she wanna say she still care. Not so fast my friend. Now look at me got a decent job. Hot new chick that will kill for me and life is actually pretty good. She say she didn't wanna tell me she was pregnant I see why cause she knew i was right. If that ain't karma i don't know what is. My hands are clean you guys are right it's not my problem. I won't be an enemy with her bu5 it's not my problem. ....
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