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hi guys what are some of the best ways to get your mind off things... this weekend my ex is going to a music festival and all i can picture is her with her fake tan, dancing with random dudes looking good, having the time of her life with her mates that she now spends every weekend with ... grrrr

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I recommend Basketball cause i do it to let out my frustrations :D

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This happened to me 2 weeks ago, my bf (we're on a break) was out at a club, and I was at another club. The whole night I couldnt enjoy myself because I was too busy thinking about him, who is he talking to, does he remember we're still exclusive?

 

Well he was out having a great time with his friends, getting drunk, whilst here I am ruining my own night by feeling anxious the whole time.

 

DONT DO IT. If she's out having fun.. shouldnt you try to enjoy yourself also?

 

At the end of the night, my bf was texting me anyway, and calling me on his way home. Because - nothing is as it seems! And whatever happens, you can't control it anyway... so why stress?

 

Best thing to do? Keep yourself occupied. Go see your friends. Go to the gym. Go see a movie. Keep MOVING. Any urges, take a moment to yourself and stop rationalising your actions. Just STOP. (I feel like I'm almost talking to myself because we're still in NC and I'm STILL getting urges)

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Yeah i know what you mean.. The thing is my ex gf/gf or whatever she is still talk daily, see each other some weekends still hook up etc, but found out she kissed some random a month or 2 ago. Even though we were def broken up and werent seeing each other again, it still hurts. I know she will be out having a great time with her friends and i wish i was there with her but the thought that she might have a drunken hook up again scares me, and i know the next day she will text me like nothing has happened and expect me to be okay with it, all the while i have to keep my game face on like nothing bothers me. arghhhh

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