thr1986 Posted May 1, 2013 Posted May 1, 2013 Im 26 and have dated someone for the past year. We lived in different cities when we met and did not live in the same city until February when she moved to where I live now. Long distance was what we always had but god we really were crazy about eachother, her being much crazier about me for the first 6 months or so. She had 2 marriages before me, ages 19 and 23. Both to older guys (about 7 years older than her). Of course I asked her about those marriages, but she said she divorced both of them because they were cheating on her. Things she says often do not add up. I have caught her lying about many things, usually very trivial things that theres no reason to lie about. This behavior causes me to start to wonder about her past. Long story short, I have decided to break up with her because I think shes a pathological liar and I need to move on. I over heard her talking to a friend the other day on the phone and she was telling her friend that I was abusive (outrageously untrue) and it seemed that she was trying to get sympathy from him. Shes ALWAYS looking for sympathy. She tells everyone about her ex that cheated on her and how outragously bad he treated her, ect... and shes always getting sympathy for it. MY QUESTION IS THIS: Should I just outright start ignoring her. She knows I overheard this conversation she had and admitted that she was making that up, but gave no explanation. Should I sit down with her and actually break up or should I just IGNORE her and she will get the message?
Amelie1980 Posted May 1, 2013 Posted May 1, 2013 If you ignore her she will seek you out and want to know why. Meet her in public say you want to end it, you don't think it'll work, wish her well.
Author thr1986 Posted May 1, 2013 Author Posted May 1, 2013 She just moved to a new city in February to be with me. I think she will move back home now that it's over. I'm upset with her about her lies she is saying about me. The weird thing is that she wanted to try and work it out after I told her I knew what she was saying about me. If I ignore her, will that deliver a pretty strong message?
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